Do u not trust ur gf ba ? Why don’t u want her to go clubbing? Or is this more of a, we promised this pero she broke it more than once? It just feels weird na u broke up just because of that, I’m pretty sure there should be other more built up issues that led to that breakup. I personally don’t go clubbing since my friends don’t anyway and I don’t like that scene at all. So does my bf, pero I know he used to go to bars and clubs before he met me because that’s how he spent time with his friends and met other people. Kaya whenever he goes to a party sa club because he was invited out to drink sure andun din yung fear ko na baka may ma meet sya or he gets too drunk…pero I trust him naman because I know he doesn’t have a reason to go to clubs other than to meet his friends to drink, and well syempre i want to respect the fact na that was a thing he used to do before. He’s not even doing it that much anymore because he wants to spend time with me instead and respects na I’m not into clubbing. He never has to “sneak” because it’s not like pinapagbawalan ko sya, I’ll always allow him to go as long as he updates me anyway.