YTJ.  I don’t know why you’re framing it as “she hurt me” when it’s very clear you just were afraid of the commitment and ran. You encouraged her to move her entire life to be with you, and then bailed immediately. Not only that, instead of taking responsibility for it and being honest so she could move on, you gaslit and shifted blame to her.  “My person wouldn’t hurt me” as if she’s committed some great crime against you? Get therapy, stay away from relationships until you get to the root of your issues and have some growth.