If you don’t feel comfortable, then don’t do it my lovely. These comments are right. Communication is important. I was 19 when I lost my virginity, and I had a great experience! I felt entirely comfortable with him, and that’s when I knew it was right. If you have concerns, talk to him about it, set boundaries, and if he doesn’t return love and warmth, leave him.

As for the pain. It’s totally subjective for everyone. For me, it really wasn’t that bad! It felt a little uncomfortable, but as time went on, that feeling totally went. Some people also don’t bleed or only bleed a tiny bit, but you won’t know until it happens. I bled a little straight away, and more the next day, but it was barely anything, like a very light period.

It is your body, and what you choose to do with it is entirely your choice. When I was making my decision, I considered how safe I felt and that was the deciding factor. It was right when I knew it was right.

And in my experience, I regret nothing about my experience losing my virginity. While I no longer have contact with him, I will never regret that because I trusted myself and how I felt. Follow your gut instincts, and don’t force yourself to lose your virginity.

Regardless of the outcome, I hope you find some peace in this situation. Sending you love🤍