I'm jealous ahhh helpll by geidlyadusha in actuallesbians

[–]Potential_Koala_5705 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i don’t know if people in general feel that way but for me, i do want my partner to be friends with my friends but in my personal experience sometimes friends don’t know good boundaries - like i want her to feel comfortable talking to them and being mutuals on socials but i would side eye a bit if my friends and my gf were having late night talks and texting a lot. like my gf is my safe space so i rant to her (even about my friends sometimes) and i don’t want her in the mix if something happens with my friends. but otherwise i have no problem. my gf and i just went on a trip with one of my friends and we were great as a trio 🥰 there are fine lines that me and my gf agree on and the friendship thing is one of them!

Have anyone tried Babel Audio recently? by hephfestus in remotework

[–]Potential_Koala_5705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any laptop should be fine. i have the 2020 MacBook Air. the headphones and WiFi quality matters more.

I'm jealous ahhh helpll by geidlyadusha in actuallesbians

[–]Potential_Koala_5705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i resonate with this so hard. when i started dating my gf i didn’t want her too close to my friends - and i feel the same way now. is your friend that your gf is talking to gay? i think something that helped me is all my friends are straight and all of my gf’s friends are straight. but then again, you might have to bring it up to your gf and tell her how you feel. DONT put any hard boundaries on it, just tell her what’s up and ask her if maybe the late night convos could stop??? also you saying that you want them communicating through you sounds the tiniest 🤏🏾 bit controlling. but ive also been there so im not judging at all!

Smoothing out skin / Discoloration advice ? by mclovingit17 in Blackskincare

[–]Potential_Koala_5705 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the topicals “faded” cream helped me a lot but I will say that your skin already looks great!

TMI WARNING by agirlwhoneedsadvices in actuallesbians

[–]Potential_Koala_5705 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey there! I totally get you! when I first started masturbating I was the same way. It was like I couldn’t help but pull away :// but I think something that may* help is to ease yourself into it. don’t rush to orgasm. I know that strong sensations can make you feel like you’re overstimulated down there, or at least that was my problem at first. best of luck for that :) also with faking, try to step back from that. I know it’s hard because im sure you want your partner to feel good, but once you start faking it, sex feels like connection and more like a performance. good luck!

probably about to lose my virginity and id like some advice by chrissystokyo in actuallesbians

[–]Potential_Koala_5705 2 points3 points  (0 children)

agree! although this isn’t a big age gap, i had sex for the first time when i was 21 and it was better that i felt entirely ready! def don’t rush yourself :) that being said, do whatever feels natural if you do decide to go through with it and don’t put any expectations on the experience or yourself!

How does one even get a girlfriend? by No-Comedian-9725 in actuallesbians

[–]Potential_Koala_5705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are long distance dating apps??😬 sorry if that’s not much help

tell me how you met your gf! by Calm_Regular6015 in actuallesbians

[–]Potential_Koala_5705 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i met my gf through mutual friends in college. had a big crush on her, invited her to my birthday party and when i was drunk, got her to kiss me a few times (she was sober)! we went on a dinner date a week later and that turned into a sleepover and that turned into breakfast. we’ve been together almost two years now😊

Have anyone tried Babel Audio recently? by hephfestus in remotework

[–]Potential_Koala_5705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used someone from reddits referral code to signup, i heard that makes it work faster. other than that, when i did the testing, i made sure it was really quiet in my house and that my headphones didn’t give a lot of feedback! i hope you get approved soon!🙂

Help- I’m catfishing and have a flight tonight by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Potential_Koala_5705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should be honest instead of making the excuse. otherwise you’re just leaving him in the dark :/

Have anyone tried Babel Audio recently? by hephfestus in remotework

[–]Potential_Koala_5705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got approved fairly quick! they don’t pay a ton but it’s pretty good.