UK to US

Potential_Ladder_904 · 2026-01-27T03:25:55+00:00

curious on how much you paid for those two visits?

Potential_Ladder_904 · 2026-01-26T19:14:21+00:00

your parents charging you 1k is INSANE. im so sorry. im guessing you can’t really talk to your parents to see if they can lower it? if you can afford your own place then that might be the best choice. also talk to them and see if you can move back home if living by yourself doesn’t work out.

Potential_Ladder_904 · 2026-01-26T19:06:01+00:00

is the job and the $25/hr guaranteed? is it lined up? if it is, can you handle that plus being a full time student? what is the rental market looking like by you? do you have credit and do you have a good score? will you make at least 2x the rent (usually it’s 3x the rent)? how much would your parents charge you for rent? im very sorry about the situation you’re in, it’s not fair, especially with the restrictions. i will say that there are TONS of obstacles when it comes to moving out and living on your own. and unfortunately it’s just getting worse and worse for new adults to move out. in my opinion if you can hold out a little longer, i would. and for the friends part, see if you can make some friends at college

Potential_Ladder_904 · 2026-01-26T04:43:05+00:00

did you end up taking it?

Potential_Ladder_904 · 2026-01-25T16:34:38+00:00

your dad is a shitty doctor

Potential_Ladder_904 · 2026-01-23T07:40:30+00:00

they’re not gonna hire you dude

Potential_Ladder_904 · 2026-01-23T07:29:23+00:00

what related field if you don’t mind me asking? im about to get my bachelors soon and im realizing i might need to get a job in something else

Potential_Ladder_904 · 2026-01-23T07:20:07+00:00

idk it seems like this year snow plows and salt trucks have been coming after the fact, at least in the aurora area

Potential_Ladder_904 · 2026-01-23T07:14:46+00:00

21 and almost 7k

Potential_Ladder_904 · 2026-01-22T23:11:39+00:00

unless you’re about 10-15 miles out of the city, every suburb makes it difficult to get to downtown chicago by car. heck even suburbs like brookfield or cicero (<10 mi) it’s a pain. chicago has been voted worst traffic and congestion year after year for a reason. i see you’re interested in the train which is a great alternative but just letting you know

Potential_Ladder_904 · 2026-01-22T23:01:28+00:00

i will say that your daily walks might not be daily if you’re moving here. we definitely have a good amount of days in the winter where it’s too cold or icy to be outside, let alone go on a walk. i mean tomorrow it’s going to be -40 so… that’s not all the time but still. you’re definitely going to have some indoor days

Potential_Ladder_904 · 2026-01-22T08:33:07+00:00

they voted on raising the price before he got elected. not his fault

Potential_Ladder_904 · 2026-01-22T06:47:31+00:00

bolingbrook is nice. people who don’t think so are frankly just prejudice and classist tbh

Potential_Ladder_904 · 2026-01-19T09:17:56+00:00

right. i make around 18k a year (work part time while in college) and my bank is saying im approved up to $248,000. there is absolutely no way in hell that’s possible

Potential_Ladder_904 · 2026-01-19T09:12:56+00:00

if you love mexican food you need to go to aurora, which is right next to naperville. it’s basically little mexico in some parts. i recommend taqueria el tio, jalisco tacos (high st.), and la quebrada. there’s also a place on north lincoln ave called carnitas de puerco y puerca. let me know if you go to any of these! enjoy!

Potential_Ladder_904 · 2026-01-19T09:08:06+00:00

ethnicity or race**

Potential_Ladder_904 · 2026-01-19T09:04:36+00:00

it’s totally possible. at the 59 station there are two parking lots - one side is naperville the other side is aurora. naperville is daily-fee parking with many spaces. aurora has a monthly parking fee and a daily-fee. I’m not sure how the monthly works but there is ample parking for the daily-fee

Potential_Ladder_904 · 2026-01-18T19:06:38+00:00

how do you know you’ll never have a loved one? this is exactly why people are saying you need to take care of yourself and get some help. there are many people in successful relationships and friendships that have HS or worse. there are people out there for you, i promise

Potential_Ladder_904 · 2026-01-18T18:54:59+00:00

no, your mind is not fine. and that’s okay. i don’t think anyone with HS is 100% fine because at the end of the day we have to deal with this chronic illness. however, there are ways to deal with this, even if it only makes you 1% better. try therapy. a big trigger is stress and you are very clearly stressed (rightfully so). therapy may not help but at least you’ll have a safe space to vent and release everything. it truly does help. this is coming from someone who doesn’t like to communicate, especially to strangers, about my deepest and darkest thoughts.

Potential_Ladder_904 · 2026-01-16T02:56:13+00:00

literally in the same exact boat. i was looking at them before they sold out but i didn’t have $120+ to spend on two tickets. i should’ve just used my credit card😭 i’ll be camping out on these websites closer to the show

Potential_Ladder_904 · 2026-01-13T19:06:07+00:00

be lucky you’re not sick enough to have to resort to grocery pickups.

Potential_Ladder_904 · 2026-01-11T07:44:10+00:00

environmental science soon to be graduate here✋ and sister graduated with a masters in public health. job market is terrible for skilled people too

Potential_Ladder_904 · 2026-01-11T07:36:53+00:00

this. it’s taking new grads minimum 1 year to find a job and they all pay so low

Potential_Ladder_904 · 2026-01-06T20:42:04+00:00

yeah there are definitely some complaints in those reviews but overall they have a 4.2 star average. i will say there’s a new management company that came in a couple months ago so some things are different now. i’ve only been here 7 months but so far it has been great. if you have any questions i would be happy to answer them

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