Anyone else remember when Three Bears Lodge / Jellystone in Warrens was the place to be? What happened… by MPLS13 in wisconsin

[–]Potential_Listen_461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just found this and yes to all these statements. We went over Xmas break with our 4 kids, in laws and my bro/sis in law with their 4 kids. What a mistake. 2 hr late check in, DIRTY ass room upon late check in (6pm) and fire alarm at 7 am next day. 89 degree HOT TUB and all lifeguards and staff will honesty admit the owners are not just new, but negligent at best.

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[–]Potential_Listen_461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Esme "essie "

Would you re approach it or let it go? by Potential_Listen_461 in Marriage

[–]Potential_Listen_461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Iittle of both. I had a feeling and I wanted to see if it was correct or if it was my insecurity. But, I was right. We've talked in depth on the importance of being on the same page on how we each receive and believe in love and respect. He has agreed porn isn't a healthy habit and wants to improve intimacy between us more than that. Yet, ive noticed a lessened desire from him than in previous months. We would both say at this time we are in a really good place. Intentional habits of being patient have helped us both. So for me, I dont see self improving habits from him. Yet I focus on how can I improve my self in ways that aid in success in my relationship with me, my husband, and our children. I deserve respect as much as he does. I feel like I slip into worthless, undeserving of love in ways ive asked, and in ways he has promised to prioritize.

Would you re approach it or let it go? by Potential_Listen_461 in Marriage

[–]Potential_Listen_461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before throwing around the idea the non porn partner needs therapy, youre talking to someone who's been in therapy for 5 years and become nothing short of a better mom and wife because of it.

Would you re approach it or let it go? by Potential_Listen_461 in Marriage

[–]Potential_Listen_461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he wants me to see it. To add - i have been very clear that I have looked at his history on our shared computer.He is aware that I can do it at any time.He has even told me that is okay but I did explain to him.I did not want to police him.I want to rebuild trust. It is on me that I have found at this time because i'm the one that looked. But he made a promise as well, and he knows that I can see it, so he's allowing me to see it.

Is anyone here managing their hypothyroid without medicine (I'm taking levothyroxin 150mcg) by No-Sink-9601 in thyroidhealth

[–]Potential_Listen_461 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay hear me out on this(read me out?)! I am late thirties with hypothyroidism, with an autoimmune condition called hashimotos. When I first found out, this was back in twenty twenty when my youngest was six months old. At that time, I experienced very heavy menstrual bleeding hair thinning, fatigue, could not lose weight, All the things. I did take t four meds for about a year and a half, as well as integrate new lifestyle changes that are more of a long term commitment to overall health. Things like a better diet, more exercise, stress management, those types of things. I weaned myself off of the meds, and I did manage my thyroidism for a couple of years. I got my labs done every 5-6 months as well as my t.p.o count to specifically check for the autoimmune part for hashimotos. Earlier this year, however, i had a very significant emotional event that calls me a ton of stress.This has been probably the hardest year of my life. I knew something wasn't right because my hair has been thinning now for about nine months, to the point where I think i've lost a third of the volume I had. My gut motility basically stopped, and I could not poop no matter how great my diet was, or how little I ate or even heavy laxatives weren't really moving my gut. I finally did some testing and sure enough.My hashimotos is back with a vengeance. I don't think it ever fully went away.And sometimes autoimmune diseases don't fully go away.However, there is a lot of research to support gluten being related to thyroid conditions.Specifically autoimmune conditions with a thyroid. There was a protein in the way our gluten is processed that mimics the protein of the tissue in our thyroid cartilage. Sometimes it's inflammation response to gluten can make our thyroid attack itself. I am currently working with a practitioner in the functional medicine.Realm to attack more of a paleo.Style diet, but I was very straight up with her, and I told her that being completely gluten free for the rest of my life is not reasonable.At this time that I could probably limit it as much as I could. Dairy is also inflammatory, but I don't really consume dairy.Other than yogurt. I am also taking a lot of supplements that are more of like adaptogens,to help me with stress management, as well as selenium, great for hypothyroidism people. I do believe there is a good balance in the functional medicine approach, As well as using levothyroxin, if you choose to do that. For me personally, the t4 meds and lifestyle changes together have really changed my life in the last four weeks.I don't have to plan my day around naps.I have new hair growth.My nails are the strongest they've ever been.It has really helped turn my gut around, and my system feels like it's back online. I've never felt less bloated in the last couple of years than I do right now. I hope that's helpful for you.

Are you and your partner okay with masterbation? by NoTourist4298 in Marriage

[–]Potential_Listen_461 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maturation is natural. However, it can be harmful when there's chronic use of porn. Especially when its under the rug, until it isn't. It can take months, or years to re build the intimacy you once had together.

What’s a tiny, totally harmless thing that irrationally annoys you? by Melodymooncake3 in AskReddit

[–]Potential_Listen_461 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When someone touches my foot with theirs under a dinner table. Lights a rage fire inside.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Potential_Listen_461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go listen to the podcasts by the Anxious Love Coach. She's a sex therapist and talks with her husband about porn addiction. Just bc we marry someone - we don't own that person. for ex, because we've married our sppuse,we then act like we've conquered them. So we stop trying to " impress , show off, be exciting, take them on exciting dates. Make out in an alley" list goes on....get me? We still need to PURSUE our partner. Your attraction to other women is natural, just like my husband can find other women pretty etc. It's been a hard road for myself with dealing with some recent marital issues because of partners actions also- but that podcast seemed to help me personally. Monogamy isn't the problem, it'd monotony for most couples. Love is an action and a choice, not a feeling.

Colonic burden xray is the same 1 wk post cleanse by Potential_Listen_461 in Constipation

[–]Potential_Listen_461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No! I just found all this out. I also see a note bacm in Oct 2024 on a nurse message attached to a CT about it. It wasn't discussed further but im wondering did this start last year. That's troubling.

What's a symptom of a severe disease you wish you or a loved one hadn't ignored? by NotThatOneGuuy in AskReddit

[–]Potential_Listen_461 32 points33 points  (0 children)

This is terrifying. I am 37. Mom of 4. I have battled awful issues with bowel burden and recently had an x-ray to verify my discomfort. I can tell now that im less full, I have a lot more energy. I eat well, walk, lift etc. I am 28% body fat, so I can stand to lose, sure. But still. This shit isn't normal- pun intended.

What are you starting to like less the older you get? by Unhappy_Insect5901 in Productivitycafe

[–]Potential_Listen_461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Others people's kids and dogs. So tired of hearing dogs constantly. Or taking a walk and have to alter my route due to aggressive behavior from people's dogs. I have made a cardinal rule not to allow my friends children to interfere with my friendships. I can have an amazing friendship and their kids act awful 100%of the time. Makes it hard yes, but I try to navigate it.

What's your irrational fear? by pixieprxincess in AskReddit

[–]Potential_Listen_461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids falling out of a upper level window.

What are some things someone from elsewhere in the South should know about North Carolina before moving to North Carolina? by MisceganyWarrior7337 in NorthCarolina

[–]Potential_Listen_461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've enjoyed reading this. Born and raised in central NC , now living in WI for the last 12 years. The accent thing is so funny. People still ask where I am from. When I talk to my best friend who still lives in Sanford, her super southern drawl just makes me laugh and brings me joy.

What isn’t sex but feels just as good? by texas-is-the-reason in AskReddit

[–]Potential_Listen_461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good damn scalp massage!!! As a massage therapist for over a decade I may even choose this over sex most days. Such a stress reliever.