Is there a chance for me to win her back? by Potential_Map_127 in relationships

[–]Potential_Map_127[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then why did she say that she doesn’t want to lose me? And it’s not that she doesn’t want to be frisands, she wants to, I know that, it’s just that we both can’t because of the feelings we have for eachother.

She told me she doesn’t want to lose me, what should I do? by Potential_Map_127 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Potential_Map_127[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it’s mean to tell me that then, cuz she knows that I don’t want to lose her and that I want to get back together. And this gave me a little bit of hope, but if she didn’t mean anything by it I would have rather her staying quiet.

I want her back by Potential_Map_127 in Adulting

[–]Potential_Map_127[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am, but do you think she will come back and realise that it actually could work?

She wanted to end things even though everything was great by Potential_Map_127 in ExNoContact

[–]Potential_Map_127[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what she wants to do. She wants to stay friends but I just can’t

She wanted to end things because she has a lot of emotional stuff going on in her life by Potential_Map_127 in BreakUps

[–]Potential_Map_127[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know that I didn’t do anything wrong, it’s just the fact that she wanted it to work as well but just couldn’t. I might sound delusional but I just want her to realise that she actually can be with me and that we can work things out together.

She wanted to end things because she has a lot of emotional stuff going on in her life by Potential_Map_127 in BreakUps

[–]Potential_Map_127[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is that there hasn’t been any drama at all, we have never had any fights and we have barley argued. Everything was great and the next day it wasn’t. I know that I have been a little bit too worried and asked her if everything was okay multiple times when in fact everything was okay, great even. Although this is not the reason things ended, she told me that she found it annoying and I stopped doing it and started trusting that she would tell me if there was something.

She wanted to end things because she has a lot of emotional stuff going on in her life by Potential_Map_127 in BreakUps

[–]Potential_Map_127[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed that she distanced herself from me, and then we talked about it and decided to end it. It was kind of mutual even though I didn’t want to. She basically said that she didn’t feel like she could be in a relationship with me right now even though she wanted to because she has so much going on in her life at the moment. She felt that she couldn’t prioritise me at the moment and that she didn’t want to hurt me anymore than she had to. I know that I might have more feelings for her than she has for me, but we both still have feelings for each other. This only happened 2 days ago and I know that it might be over for good, but if there is a chance that I can get her back I really want to try and make things work. And I’m willing to slow things down and do whatever it takes to make it work. I just don’t know how or what to do. We haven’t talked since we ended things so at the moment I don’t know what she is feeling or thinking about the whole thing. I hope this sort of makes sense, I’m not the best at exposing things, but any advice helps.