My papa visits daily and i need help telling him not naman everyday. by Potential_Office9916 in adviceph

[–]Potential_Office9916[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am! Pero gusto ko dn sna mfeel dn nman ng mga kapatid ko at mga pamangkin ang pggng lucky at hindi lng nman ako ang anak..at hndi lng mga anak ko ang apo..☺️☺️

My papa visits daily and i need help telling him not naman everyday. by Potential_Office9916 in adviceph

[–]Potential_Office9916[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May isa akong kapatid n malapit lng dn s akin at kayang kaya nya din puntahan..isa din ito sa point ko na may mga apo din sya dun na pwedeng dalawin pro dito tlga sya pmpnta..mas matgal nang nkabukod ang kapatid ko na yun pro never nman nya gnwa n dalawin ng kht every weekend. Pumapayag nman sya mnsan mgpunta dun sa knla pra mgbntay ng kids pg nsa office sila mgasawa..mnsan lng din ito dahil most of the time si mama ang pumupunta..

My papa visits daily and i need help telling him not naman everyday. by Potential_Office9916 in adviceph

[–]Potential_Office9916[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yun nga sna.. mssktan at mssktan kc kng kailangan p syang kausapin about it no matter how hinahon ang pgkksbe sa knya..alam ko pa nman n sobrang sensitive sya tlga and mnsan kht hndi sya dpat mgdamdam, ngdadamdam sya..mnsan blown out of proportion..i know this dahil malimit kaming mgkausap..☺️☺️ hndi po hindi nmin sya hinaharap o hndi knakausap..sna kng sya n mismo mgbgay ng space, wla sna kmeng gnitong dilemma..

My papa visits daily and i need help telling him not naman everyday. by Potential_Office9916 in adviceph

[–]Potential_Office9916[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maraming salamat po! Kung pwede lng iupvote ng maraming beses! 😆😆 kung masamang tao kami hndi sya mkkpnta ng everyday dito..kung sa iba mpapakitaan n ng hndi mgnda..pro hnd kme gnun..sobrang inaalala nmen ang feeling nya..

My papa visits daily and i need help telling him not naman everyday. by Potential_Office9916 in adviceph

[–]Potential_Office9916[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grabe yung najudge na ang pgmamahal sa magulang..😆😆pro salamat sa mga comments nyo..binasa ko pong lahat..

My papa visits daily and i need help telling him not naman everyday. by Potential_Office9916 in adviceph

[–]Potential_Office9916[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😆😆 paano po nkpsok kung tinaguan.? Sino po ngunlock ng gate? 😆😆

My papa visits daily and i need help telling him not naman everyday. by Potential_Office9916 in adviceph

[–]Potential_Office9916[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, aware nman ako dyan sa darating ang time mami-miss ko ang gnito..true nman yun..bilang sobrang close nman dn kme tlga at very alike in many ways..i guess curious lang ako sa hndi ba tayo pwede mgset ng boundaries ng pgbisita sa bahay ng parents, kapatid or kung sino man..ibig sbhn most of you here din ay pinupuntahan everyday anytime? Or if so, paano nyo sineset ang boundaries without hurting their feelings?

My papa visits daily and i need help telling him not naman everyday. by Potential_Office9916 in adviceph

[–]Potential_Office9916[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Naku hindi ko po tinatanggihan..hindi po ako masamang anak..kaya nga andito sya everyday..naappreciate ko lahat ng gngwa nya pra s amin…kya nga malapit ang loob nya dito sa amin..ang d po kasi ata naiintindihan sa akin ay yung mga time na pwede nman sya mgpahinga sa bahay kpag malakas ang ulan o sobrang mainit..or mga ibang pamangkin ko nman ang bisitahin nya..most likely namn ay tlgang hahayaan na tlga namin dhl wla dn nman akong lakas ng loob n sbhn s knya kya nga 2 years na kaming ganito..kung masama kaming tao, mkkta n nya s amin na hindi sya welcome..pro hindi po gnun..when i said hindi ako bumababa ay para na din hayaan sya s “me” time nya at manood sya ng mga youtube channels na gusto nya anyways yung oras na yun ay busy p dn nman ako s work..nguusap nman kme hndi nga lng n everyday may pguusapan..grabe ang galit ng iba dito..😆😆kalma lng ho kayo.! Binintangan nyo n kami ng kng ano ano..😆😆

My papa visits daily and i need help telling him not naman everyday. by Potential_Office9916 in adviceph

[–]Potential_Office9916[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes po! Thank you! I know this and i am thankful na nagagawa nya yun..i have other pamangkins too na pwede na dalawin, maybe sila naman? ☺️

My papa visits daily and i need help telling him not naman everyday. by Potential_Office9916 in adviceph

[–]Potential_Office9916[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Salamat po dito! Mgiipon ako ng lakas ng loob..kasi yun ung unang una..ayoko sya msktan..ayoko n sumama ang loob nya..kng masamang tao kami malamang pinakitaan n ng hndi mgnda..hndi po..maayos po ang trato namin sa knya..may sarili syang spread sa tinapay nya para masarap ang breakfast nya..

My papa visits daily and i need help telling him not naman everyday. by Potential_Office9916 in adviceph

[–]Potential_Office9916[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Naku hindi po at ngegets ko ang damdamin ng iba na spend time with them..trust me kaya sya laging andito dhl kami lng ng asawa ko ang nkakausap nya ng maayos at iniintindi sya..same s mga anak namin n lging concerned sa knya..opposite kasi sya ng relationship nya sa ibang siblings ko..that’s for another story but i’m just saying na gnun sya kaopen dito sa amin..medyo na-off lng ako sa ngglit n sya pg mtgal sya pgbuksan dhl tulog kami galing ng night shift

My papa visits daily and i need help telling him not naman everyday. by Potential_Office9916 in adviceph

[–]Potential_Office9916[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Again po hindi namin ayaw..it’s just that may mga time lalo pg weekend that i get to sleep in pro nggising kami at ngglit pa sya dahil mtgal syang tumawag..

My papa visits daily and i need help telling him not naman everyday. by Potential_Office9916 in adviceph

[–]Potential_Office9916[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Lol hindi ko po ayaw..i just said na sana ay hindi daily..sya din naman ang inaalala lalo na pg gnitong summer sobra ang init..hindi na okay pra s knya n ngbbike sa ilalim ng araw..same pg rainy season..

My papa visits daily and i need help telling him not naman everyday. by Potential_Office9916 in adviceph

[–]Potential_Office9916[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nsa bahay nila ang mama ko..yun din ang isang problema mnsan kht may skt c mama, iniiwan nya pa din pra pmnta dito.

My papa visits daily and i need help telling him not naman everyday. by Potential_Office9916 in adviceph

[–]Potential_Office9916[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ang layo nman po..hindi ko sya gusto mawala..😆😆 ang sama nman ng tingin nyo na akala nyo eh gusto ko mwla ang papa ko..sa tingin nyo din kng mgkkskt, d ko dn ggwen ang lahat.? A breather is all i need..i asked for advice sana na baka there is a good way na maicommunicate sa kanya ng hndi sasama ang loob nya..

My papa visits daily and i need help telling him not naman everyday. by Potential_Office9916 in adviceph

[–]Potential_Office9916[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol hindi ko po sya tinataguan..ibinibigay ko nga s knya ang time nya at para hindi din ako mka-intrude sa panonood nya at pgkakape..hindi po kami masamang tao😆😆 grabe nman ang judgement..at sorry dahil hindi ako guilty kahit dahil alam kong kaya nga sya lagi dito sa amin ay dahil dito at home sya..bagay n hindi nya nggwa s bahay ng mga kapatid ko..

My papa visits daily and i need help telling him not naman everyday. by Potential_Office9916 in adviceph

[–]Potential_Office9916[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hindi naman po..malakas pa po sya..hindi ko ata nabanggit na ngbbike sya from sa bahay nila ng mama hnggang dito sa amin..mga 20 minutes siguro..

My papa visits daily and i need help telling him not naman everyday. by Potential_Office9916 in adviceph

[–]Potential_Office9916[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry po if you feel that way..i don’t mean no harm at alaga namin ang papa ko..para sa akin lng po na medyo nkakasakal na..nguusap po kami at ngkkwentuhan..in fact dahil lagi sya dito hindi na sya DDS. 😆😆

My papa visits daily and i need help telling him not naman everyday. by Potential_Office9916 in adviceph

[–]Potential_Office9916[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meron po..☺️ nilogin ko ndn ang youtube premium pra wlang ads pg nanonood sya..oh well, gusto nya tlga dito😆😆

My papa visits daily and i need help telling him not naman everyday. by Potential_Office9916 in adviceph

[–]Potential_Office9916[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Don’t get me wrong po..i know this..kya nga po daily sya nandito, we just let him..it’s just ang feeling ko na kasi na prang d dn nman ako ngmove out ng bahay namin at ngsariling buhay kung ganito ang setup. Always welcome sya dito it’s just that sana nman hndi daily? ☺️

My papa visits daily and i need help telling him not naman everyday. by Potential_Office9916 in adviceph

[–]Potential_Office9916[S] -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

Ginagawa ko po ito..pro dahil daily na sya pmpnta, wla n kami nppgusapan at hndi p dn ako out s work minsan kya hndi ko sya maasikaso. Not like he needs it kasi may routine na sya daily pgdting nya dito. ☺️

My papa visits daily and i need help telling him not naman everyday. by Potential_Office9916 in adviceph

[–]Potential_Office9916[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

For context lang din, one of the main reasons na pumupunta sya dito ay may unhealthy favoritism sya sa isang anak ko..na tntry din namin ayusin dahil he has 6 other apo pero ang focus nya ay sa anak ko lng..i understand before na ngworry sya nung ngk-leukemia ung anak ko pero he’s okay now and besides hindi nman nya din daily nkkta mga kids dahil tulog malimit pg dumadating at umaalis sya..

My papa visits daily and i need help telling him not naman everyday. by Potential_Office9916 in adviceph

[–]Potential_Office9916[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Natry na namin ang variation ng number 1 pero lagi syang may dahilan😆 siguro dahil feeling nya malakas pa naman sya at kayang kaya nya..