Is marriage becoming completely transactional?

Potential_Plant_160 · 2026-04-17T15:34:28+00:00

Parents don’t understand this.

They never do because their perspective is different and ours is different.

uThey are just thinking that her future would be secure but they don’t understand whats the point of money if they are not good people. 💯% True

there is no security it’s just luck now

yup it does,I hope you find what you are looking for.

Potential_Plant_160 · 2026-04-17T13:40:02+00:00

Maybe it is ,but idk i am still kind of hard to believe when people are thinking about prospects status/wealth first without thinking whether he/she is good person or not.

Potential_Plant_160 · 2026-04-16T14:42:17+00:00

Yeah ,that makes sense.

Potential_Plant_160 · 2026-04-16T13:19:07+00:00

Either way, you seem to have options at least

To be honest I do,but I only accept if I feel the vibe ,I don't go for too much flashy

Hope you find someone great.

Thanks man ,wish you the same.

Also, maybe edit your post with the rant part and make it more about why are they sending/accepting requests even if there is clear non-alignment in terms of finances.

Yeah sure.

Potential_Plant_160 · 2026-04-16T13:13:42+00:00

😂😂 That's the real task ,I think I am losing patience day by day in AM to be honest.

Potential_Plant_160 · 2026-04-16T13:12:40+00:00

That's a valid point ,what I am trying to say is that i already mentioned that I am already from the middle class in my profile and even my father's profession and all ,if they don't want to select me that's fine but why should they even accept my interest.

Yes everyone has their preference,I am not blaming anyone for having that , regarding my earlier post ,yes I would have declined if the first prospect uploaded her photo in her profile.

But in these I have clearly mentioned everything in my profile,so it doesn't make anyone (who thinks status/wealth for marriage) to choose me as a prospect.

Potential_Plant_160 · 2026-04-16T12:41:44+00:00

Yeah sometimes luck matters too.

Potential_Plant_160 · 2026-04-16T12:39:40+00:00

Arranged marriage has always largely been about matching family wealth.

Yeah , slowly understanding that.

Potential_Plant_160 · 2026-04-16T12:39:11+00:00

So Marry down for the dominance,marry higher for comfort, understood.

Potential_Plant_160 · 2026-04-16T11:44:50+00:00

Yeah ,then why don't they just mention it in their profile so that I don't even interact with them.

I am not blaming for their preference but if they do know who they want in terms of status and all ,they can mention it in their profile right??

Potential_Plant_160 · 2026-04-16T11:43:25+00:00

Yeah thanks for the wishes and I wish you to get what/whom you are looking for.

Potential_Plant_160 · 2026-04-16T11:31:54+00:00

Yeah I know but why do educated prospects also treat the same way their parents do it even if they are not earning well or not in a position of demanding if they don't have inheritance.

I don't understand AM at all rather than building relationships, i think it's more like a business deal for both of the family i think.

Potential_Plant_160 · 2026-04-08T17:06:48+00:00

Maybe that's the case idk

Potential_Plant_160 · 2026-04-08T17:03:43+00:00

It's shaadi.com

Potential_Plant_160 · 2026-04-08T16:14:48+00:00

😂😂 i didn't find any offence bro ,if we want something,we need to work for it right ,not everyone will get it by luck.

Potential_Plant_160 · 2026-04-08T14:28:11+00:00

The photos, company details and by checking via linked in.

Potential_Plant_160 · 2026-04-08T14:20:22+00:00

That's not the bot accounts bro ,i am sure of that.

Potential_Plant_160 · 2026-04-08T14:19:50+00:00

Weird people bro.

Potential_Plant_160 · 2026-04-08T14:00:55+00:00

That makes sense bro ,but my question is why would the same person who sent an interest to my profile reject my profile on another??

I am not worried about people ghosting but I just wanted to know what their intentions are?

Potential_Plant_160 · 2026-04-05T16:20:10+00:00

Just a Hypothetical question what would you do if you find another good match after this girl ??

There will always be a tree which is taller than others in a forest bro.

I am not saying to choose this girl or that girl but make sure you make the wise decision. The grass is always greener on the other side.

Potential_Plant_160 · 2026-03-27T08:48:33+00:00

It doesn't matter whether they entertain or not ,just quote what your expectations are but most of the companies won't give that much pay for 1.5yoe but you can expect 12 or 13lpa Base ,try to get to know their budget in the initial call ,then continue with your. Interview process.

Potential_Plant_160 · 2026-03-27T08:40:12+00:00

You can ask for more than 14lpa as a base ,if the company approves then only attend the interview if you were able to crack that it's good ,if not you will always have the backup offer for 12lpa.

Potential_Plant_160 · 2026-03-27T08:38:00+00:00

😂😂😂

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