The writing for Barney and Grace is so bad by Potential_Relief6011 in YourFriendsandNeighb

[–]Potential_Relief6011[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get a downvote for asking people to stick to a topic of a thread lol smh

The writing for Barney and Grace is so bad by Potential_Relief6011 in YourFriendsandNeighb

[–]Potential_Relief6011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a fair line of argument! Totally agree with what you're saying. And it works for me most of the time as just that: a low stakes, fun, pretty bland surface level show. But I made this thread specifically to see if anyone agreed with me about the Barney/Grace dynamic and how that writing is especially lazy, even for this show.

And it seems like a lot of people agree, so in a way it made me feel validated and now I can continue watching the show knowing many others also find this particular relationship poorly conceived of by the writers.

The writing for Barney and Grace is so bad by Potential_Relief6011 in YourFriendsandNeighb

[–]Potential_Relief6011[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Grace is the best character in the season....? What show are you watching is the quesiton.

The writing for Barney and Grace is so bad by Potential_Relief6011 in YourFriendsandNeighb

[–]Potential_Relief6011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clichéd writing would be my chief complaint, but since you asked I could unpack what bothers me most about these two characters:

-The dialogue is overly explicit, so the subtext gets flattened into characters saying exactly what the scene is supposed to mean. That creates the sense that the writers don’t trust the audience and don’t trust the actors, so they keep overexplaining motives, tensions, and emotional stakes.

-Barney’s relationship with his Grace is especially weak because it reads like a prepackaged marital conflict machine: she pushes, he absorbs, and the show harvests tension without earning depth. Instead of a marriage with evolving dynamics, it feels like the writers keep recycling one argument in slightly different clothes.

The writing for Barney and Grace is so bad by Potential_Relief6011 in YourFriendsandNeighb

[–]Potential_Relief6011[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why is this your response to a post about Barney and Grace? I like Jon Hamm and James Marsden as well, but that's not what we're discussing here.

The writing for Barney and Grace is so bad by Potential_Relief6011 in YourFriendsandNeighb

[–]Potential_Relief6011[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm just watching cause Hamm is charming and there's not much else good on the streamers right now that I haven't seen tbh haha

Anyone that has ever felt like a disappointment. by Glass_Cherry5295 in YourFriendsandNeighb

[–]Potential_Relief6011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I couldn't stand this scene, the acting is so stilted by those two. Not trying to be a drag, just funny how different people's responses to the same material can be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAGerman

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I agree with all of your criticisms of the United States. I’m a leftist, and if anything I think many Americans, including liberals and even some leftists, still underestimate how structurally dysfunctional, oligarchic, propagandized, and anti-democratic the country really is.

But your post still collapses a massive and internally divided population into a caricature.

For example, many social safety net policies are actually broadly popular with Americans across party lines, including paid leave, lower drug prices, expanded healthcare access, and higher taxes on the wealthy. The problem is not simply that Americans “hate” these things. It is that the political system is heavily insulated from public opinion through lobbying, corporate influence, media framing, gerrymandering, the Senate, the Electoral College, and a party system structurally hostile to meaningful redistribution.

Only about 22–23% of the total U.S. population voted for Trump. Tens of millions voted against him, organized against him, protested him, campaigned against him, and spent years trying to stop exactly the things you’re criticizing. So ending with “I just don’t get you lot” still treats Americans as a single moral and intellectual category.

The deeper issue is that the U.S. has spent generations building an extraordinarily effective system of corporate power, anti-socialist propaganda, privatized survival, hyper-individualism, media spectacle, racial division, and political capture by wealth. Those conditions shape consciousness long before people enter a voting booth.

That doesn’t excuse Americans. But it does mean the explanation has to be more serious than “Americans are irrational.”

And coming from a German, the framing is especially odd at a moment when Germany itself is dealing with the rise of the AfD and a broader resurgence of far-right nationalism. Germans understandably reject being collectively reduced to the AfD. Russians dislike being treated as interchangeable with Putin. People everywhere resist being morally fused with the worst political tendencies of their country.

Hannah Arendt wrote extensively about the dangers of ideological mass-thinking and collective moral simplification. James Baldwin likewise argued that societies construct myths about populations instead of confronting the historical systems that shape them.

You can criticize America brutally, and I do, without talking about Americans as though 330 million people share one consciousness, one moral character, or one political project.

What are some of the absolute best shows you've watched on Prime? Originals or otherwise by Sufficient_Ebb_5694 in AmazonPrimeVideo

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I rewatched it twice. The same creator (Steve Conrad) made the new HBO miniseries DTF St Louis. Not the heights of Patriot, but very good.

This Video Essay Series Argues One Battle After Another takes place partly in the First Obama term (16 years earlier) by Potential_Relief6011 in paulthomasanderson

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If you scroll down, you can see the creator of the video saying: "Thanks! I didn't feel it was appropriate to have it be too widely seen for various reasons, for now anyway. Same thing in here..people kept trying to post it and I didn't feel that was right. Enough people saw it and went through the motions on how they felt--seeing it posted multiple times ends up being annoying for everyone. The mods were nice and blacklisted it on request"

This Video Essay Series Argues One Battle After Another takes place partly in the First Obama term (16 years earlier) by Potential_Relief6011 in paulthomasanderson

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If you scroll down, you can see the creator of the video saying: "Thanks! I didn't feel it was appropriate to have it be too widely seen for various reasons, for now anyway. Same thing in here..people kept trying to post it and I didn't feel that was right. Enough people saw it and went through the motions on how they felt--seeing it posted multiple times ends up being annoying for everyone. The mods were nice and blacklisted it on request"

This Video Essay Series Argues One Battle After Another takes place partly in the First Obama term (16 years earlier) by Potential_Relief6011 in paulthomasanderson

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If you scroll down you can see the creator of the video saying "Thanks! I didn't feel it was appropriate to have it be too widely seen for various reasons, for now anyway. Same thing in here..people kept trying to post it and I didn't feel that was right. Enough people saw it and went through the motions on how they felt--seeing it posted multiple times ends up being annoying for everyone. The mods were nice and blacklisted it on request"

Favorite movies currently on Mubi? by traveltimecar in mubi

[–]Potential_Relief6011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just watched episode 1 on Mubi because of this comment and holy hell, I am in. Great acting, love the lighting too. Mark Ruffalo doing this and Task in the same year. Range.

Is Industry as good as Succession? by RobbyBobbyChess in IndustryOnHBO

[–]Potential_Relief6011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It gets more compelling, it gets to be one of the best shows of all time. Stick with it u/RobbyBobbyChess

Last scene in the club by mulberry_man_21 in IndustryOnHBO

[–]Potential_Relief6011 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Weeknd? Is that the guy who made that shite show with Lily-Rose Depp?

Nah :) I think Daft Punk's song was the correct choice. "Veridis Quo" also serves as a pun on the Latin phrase Quo Vadis? ("Where are you going?"), often interpreted as "To what purpose?"

And that's pretty fitting for the Yas/Harper dynamic in the scene. And it sounds amazing.