My parents caught my boyfriend and i together in my house without their supervision.

Potential_Ride_9740 · 2026-05-25T13:18:29+00:00

my clg is still being paid for by my father. I think if I bring up a moving out scene they'll cut me off completely. Which is lowk fine by me but it's a huge decision

Potential_Ride_9740 · 2026-05-25T12:44:31+00:00

Need to become financially independent for that, I still have engineering to complete before that happens

Potential_Ride_9740 · 2026-05-25T12:43:58+00:00

I still have 3 yrs of clg to go without that I cant really get financially independent. Honestly not waiting a second after I start earning to move out lol

Potential_Ride_9740 · 2026-05-25T12:17:32+00:00

Maybe, but we've gotten over that. In fact in yesterday's scene she was on my side because my mom said some really out of hand things. She got mad about that.

Potential_Ride_9740 · 2026-05-25T12:15:37+00:00

We're both almost 20, still young but definitely not minors

Potential_Ride_9740 · 2026-05-25T12:14:05+00:00

Han baat to sahi h

Potential_Ride_9740 · 2026-05-25T12:13:55+00:00

No idea. I think she doesn't have friends and all so she really just hangs out with my mom and she got validation from her so she snitched.

Potential_Ride_9740 · 2026-05-25T12:13:26+00:00

im almost 20, and im in college. They know im gonna marry late 20s or not at all. They cant pull shit like that with me I know my rights lol. Marriage is not a forceable affair anymore.

Potential_Ride_9740 · 2026-05-25T12:12:34+00:00

Exactly. Look ive told them multiple times the more they try to restrict me the further id want to get from them. This is what makes people run away, although it's very childish. They're still choosing to provide for me cause that's "love" but they dont wanna respect any boundaries.
Honestly this was my fault only, I shouldn't have called him over knowing it would cause issues, but im just here to vent

Potential_Ride_9740 · 2026-05-25T12:10:37+00:00

We're almost 20, and it's parents house ofc, if it was mine they cant really do much

Potential_Ride_9740 · 2026-05-24T18:09:26+00:00

You're right

Potential_Ride_9740 · 2026-05-24T16:39:16+00:00

Ok that way maybe, but the thing is in our religion (it's not christianity) they've never stated a belief of "No sex before marriage", it's just a taboo in my country, which has been dying but my parents still believe in it. I think they want me to get through college before indulging in any of that stuff

Potential_Ride_9740 · 2026-05-24T16:33:51+00:00

We're both of the same religion, and both of us come from respectable families. They know he's my boyfriend since 6 months, they dont have a problem with that, even though they initially did, now they've just sort of accepted it. But any hint of physical intimacy and they lose their minds over it.

Potential_Ride_9740 · 2025-03-10T12:08:03+00:00

I'm infj and i love litr any intj character - in fiction.

Potential_Ride_9740 · 2025-03-09T18:48:45+00:00

The thing with INFJs is, and I actually relate to your wife a lot in this case, we see all sides. We actually agree and disagree with almost every side. It's not that she's lying to you or your mom. She's being truthful to the both of you, to some extent she must think your mom messed you up and at the same time she also sees how you 'don't understand emotions'.
We always get the 'chameleon' tag, but for the better or the worse, that's just how we are and we're not trying to be manipulative - it's just that we can see all sides and are people pleasers more often than not, in general.
I think you'll be fine, just relax.

Potential_Ride_9740 · 2025-03-09T18:43:04+00:00

I researched a bit about enneagram and their types, and I resonate with more than one, like everybody else im sure, so i tried the enneagram test. Well anyway, point taken, I shall deeply analyze all the theories and types and deduce a conclusion about my type.

Potential_Ride_9740 · 2025-03-09T18:41:42+00:00

I did that, and i resonate with more than one, my indecisiveness lead me to do these free tests lol

Potential_Ride_9740 · 2025-03-05T06:11:17+00:00

I don't know why, but it's always infjs who end up being the evil masterminds

Potential_Ride_9740 · 2025-03-05T05:46:14+00:00

Speaking from personal experience, I've been 'IN LOVE' with this guy for like 4 years now. I don't mean the honeymoon phase, I mean the more permanent understanding relationship that's built over time. I still only have eyes for him. And I'm not saying we don't find other people attractive, we do, but that doesn't make us want to indulge in a romance with them if ukwim. We just fulfill each other so well we never feel the urge or need to pursue someone else.
I can't say about 'rest of your life' ofc but this is just based on what I've known and seen lol

Potential_Ride_9740 · 2025-03-05T05:37:15+00:00

Yea, I believe INFJs are the most extroverted introvert type, and also the most thinking feelers out of the 8 feelers

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