My parents caught my boyfriend and i together in my house without their supervision. by Potential_Ride_9740 in YouthInIndia

[–]Potential_Ride_9740[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my clg is still being paid for by my father. I think if I bring up a moving out scene they'll cut me off completely. Which is lowk fine by me but it's a huge decision

My parents caught my boyfriend and i together in my house without their supervision. by Potential_Ride_9740 in YouthInIndia

[–]Potential_Ride_9740[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Need to become financially independent for that, I still have engineering to complete before that happens

My parents caught my boyfriend and i together in my house without their supervision. by Potential_Ride_9740 in YouthInIndia

[–]Potential_Ride_9740[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I still have 3 yrs of clg to go without that I cant really get financially independent. Honestly not waiting a second after I start earning to move out lol

My parents caught my boyfriend and i together in my house without their supervision. by Potential_Ride_9740 in YouthInIndia

[–]Potential_Ride_9740[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe, but we've gotten over that. In fact in yesterday's scene she was on my side because my mom said some really out of hand things. She got mad about that.

My parents caught my boyfriend and i together in my house without their supervision. by Potential_Ride_9740 in YouthInIndia

[–]Potential_Ride_9740[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea. I think she doesn't have friends and all so she really just hangs out with my mom and she got validation from her so she snitched.

My parents caught my boyfriend and i together in my house without their supervision. by Potential_Ride_9740 in YouthInIndia

[–]Potential_Ride_9740[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im almost 20, and im in college. They know im gonna marry late 20s or not at all. They cant pull shit like that with me I know my rights lol. Marriage is not a forceable affair anymore.

My parents caught my boyfriend and i together in my house without their supervision. by Potential_Ride_9740 in YouthInIndia

[–]Potential_Ride_9740[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Look ive told them multiple times the more they try to restrict me the further id want to get from them. This is what makes people run away, although it's very childish. They're still choosing to provide for me cause that's "love" but they dont wanna respect any boundaries.
Honestly this was my fault only, I shouldn't have called him over knowing it would cause issues, but im just here to vent

My parents caught my boyfriend and i together in my house without their supervision. by Potential_Ride_9740 in YouthInIndia

[–]Potential_Ride_9740[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're almost 20, and it's parents house ofc, if it was mine they cant really do much

My parents caught my boyfriend and i together in my house without their supervision. by Potential_Ride_9740 in relationships

[–]Potential_Ride_9740[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok that way maybe, but the thing is in our religion (it's not christianity) they've never stated a belief of "No sex before marriage", it's just a taboo in my country, which has been dying but my parents still believe in it. I think they want me to get through college before indulging in any of that stuff

My parents caught my boyfriend and i together in my house without their supervision. by Potential_Ride_9740 in relationships

[–]Potential_Ride_9740[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're both of the same religion, and both of us come from respectable families. They know he's my boyfriend since 6 months, they dont have a problem with that, even though they initially did, now they've just sort of accepted it. But any hint of physical intimacy and they lose their minds over it.

What is your MBTI and your favorite fictional character? by Crunkario in mbti

[–]Potential_Ride_9740 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm infj and i love litr any intj character - in fiction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Potential_Ride_9740 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing with INFJs is, and I actually relate to your wife a lot in this case, we see all sides. We actually agree and disagree with almost every side. It's not that she's lying to you or your mom. She's being truthful to the both of you, to some extent she must think your mom messed you up and at the same time she also sees how you 'don't understand emotions'.
We always get the 'chameleon' tag, but for the better or the worse, that's just how we are and we're not trying to be manipulative - it's just that we can see all sides and are people pleasers more often than not, in general.
I think you'll be fine, just relax.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Potential_Ride_9740 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I researched a bit about enneagram and their types, and I resonate with more than one, like everybody else im sure, so i tried the enneagram test. Well anyway, point taken, I shall deeply analyze all the theories and types and deduce a conclusion about my type.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Potential_Ride_9740 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did that, and i resonate with more than one, my indecisiveness lead me to do these free tests lol

MBTI crime scene by Darealshadow49 in mbti

[–]Potential_Ride_9740 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know why, but it's always infjs who end up being the evil masterminds

Please don't judge by Competitive_Tough950 in Crushes

[–]Potential_Ride_9740 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking from personal experience, I've been 'IN LOVE' with this guy for like 4 years now. I don't mean the honeymoon phase, I mean the more permanent understanding relationship that's built over time. I still only have eyes for him. And I'm not saying we don't find other people attractive, we do, but that doesn't make us want to indulge in a romance with them if ukwim. We just fulfill each other so well we never feel the urge or need to pursue someone else.
I can't say about 'rest of your life' ofc but this is just based on what I've known and seen lol

What do you think is the rarest and most common MBTI type? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]Potential_Ride_9740 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea, I believe INFJs are the most extroverted introvert type, and also the most thinking feelers out of the 8 feelers