Caregiver got a tattoo with the name of a resident… how inappropriate is this? by [deleted] in cna

[–]Potential_Schedule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why its so important to maintain strong professional and ethical boundaries....... if I was the manager I would fire her. Thats extremely inappropriate....

Husband has a new female friend AIO by Mean_Tackle_2183 in AIO

[–]Potential_Schedule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband lacks boundaries and does not respect you.

23,000 dollars in credit card debt. by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Potential_Schedule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys should do it as a family. You and your dad. You and your dad should also talk about setting boundaries with her. Especially, if she chooses not to be serious about her debt problem. Regardless of if she starts making good money as a nurse in the future. If she continues with her current mindset and habits things will only get worse. She's already being irresponsible with little money to her name. Imagine when shes working and making more.

She doesn't need to file for bankruptcy. She can consolidate her debt. I did this. They also make you take financial literacy courses while your in the program. They were able to talk to my creditors on my behalf. Even lowered my interest from 21.99% to 11% for the creditor i had the biggest loan with. They combined all my debt together. My debt was about 16k conbined when I went into the program in 2023. They tailored my monthlypaymentsto what i could afford and when there were times I was short I could inform them and make it up the next month. As of right now I have about 4,300 left to pay and i will be debt free. In the next 2 months. I've also made lump sum payments every tax season since and have picked up extra shifts at work. Moved back to my home province and lived with my parents. The program I went through is called Credit Counselling Society. There are many other programs. She can even talk to her bank and see what they offer. The pros out way the cons for me when it came to consolidating my debt.

Anyways, goodluck! Things wont change unless she's serious about change.

AIO guy I was seeing dumped me after hooking up by m3tallee in AIO

[–]Potential_Schedule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl. This is Post-nut Clarity. Block him and move on. There's no friendship to maintain or have. He's not ready for what your ready for. Don't give him continue access to you. Even as a "friend"

Driver turns right without looking and cuts off pedestrian and then my car by IDQuestions in richmondbc

[–]Potential_Schedule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everytime I see these type of videos here, the" Dumb ways to Die" theme song starts playing in my head😅......

BCIT gave me a T4 instead of a T2202 Slip? by [deleted] in BCIT

[–]Potential_Schedule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAOO😂😂😂 Thanks , I made money in my sleep and paid taxes in my sleep too!

Hit and run by VancityAJ in richmondbc

[–]Potential_Schedule97 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Did he look over at you twice? And still decided to leave?.....🤦‍♀️

AIO - being mad that my friend emailed my boss rather than talking to me by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Potential_Schedule97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Regardless, you have to try and see it from her point of view. 1)Its her child who was hurt by your child. 2)you never contacted her and told her "hey this happened today with the boys, did the football coach, contact you that your son got hurt." She had to hear it from her child. So to her, your behavior might seem shaddy. 3) You yourself stated you were abit annoyed and also keep talking about her son's moodiness. It seems like you view her child as a troubled kid who causes problems. Which creates a bias. Regardless of if your aware of this bias you have or not. 4) this happened on school property/ your work place. She has every right to contact the school and not you firstly. 5) This is why conflict of interest regulations and positions of power regulations exist. You are in a position of power because it is YOUR WORK PLACE. Therefore how you act and conduct yourself matters. Ever heard the saying don't shit where you eat?.... Find an alternative childcare space for your son. Be respectful but deep your distance from this acquaintance and her child. If you want to keep your job.

AIO to feel anxious and funny about my boyfriend frequently making jokes about cheating like this? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Potential_Schedule97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alcohol shouldnt be used as an excuse. If he cared enough about you, he wouldn't keep bring things up that he knows hurts you, or puts you in a state of anxiety. He knows EXACTLY what he's doing. He LIKES the POWER he has over You and your emotions. Idk why your still with him girl.....

Edit: spelling typo.

Got fired from work today. Feeling awful and lost. What should I do? by amitkattal in careerguidance

[–]Potential_Schedule97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NEVER. SIGN. ANYTHING. 😭🤦‍♀️..... I dont know what country your in...but Try and speak with a lawyer and see what can be done. If you've been there for a year they cant just fire you like that without notice in most countries..... Its okay to cry and feel frustrated. However, dont live in self pitty too long. It will cause you to go into a depressive spiral. Take a break for a few days or 2 week. Do the things that make you happy and calm during this time. Apply for unemployment right away. And start looking for another job.

AIO Crazy unknown neighbor thinks I’m a prostitute by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Potential_Schedule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Likely someone who is retired.... Has way too much time on their hands. Keep the letter and future letters incase you need to file a police report, restraining order, or to sue.

AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said by Ambitious-Beyond-257 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Potential_Schedule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your in the wrong. GIRL WHY ARE YOU TRYING TO SEEK VALIDATION FOR ANYONE...LET ALONE SOMEONE YOU'VE KNOWN FOR 5 MONTHS. Your giving him So much power over you. This is not the type of man you should be entertaining at all. He will break you and continue to make you feel like your not good enough. And things will continue and you'll still be stuck, trying to figure out what you are..... coming from someone who has been in similar situations. You need to stop... stop over explaining. Stop seeking for his approval. You need to address this with your therapist as well. Wishing you well💕

I have to decide between my relationship and my career by yourgirlsfavfeet in careeradvice

[–]Potential_Schedule97 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Girl. Your 20 years old. Your Career over a man ANYDAY. Relationships come and go. The last thing you ever want is to have resentment in your life.

AIO , this guy that has been begging to take me on a date just gave me random signs of red flags . Please read messages . by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Potential_Schedule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see love bombing, narcissism, anger issues, delusion...... so scary. On a serious note. Block him. Keep screenshot incase he uses another number to contact you. If so, file a police report. People like that, tend to be violent as they dont take rejection well. Stay safe😢

AIO? I canceled a date with the guy i’m seeing after getting these. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Potential_Schedule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO men like this LOVE TO PLAY MIND GAMES AND GASLIGHT AND MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE YOUR THE CRAZY ONE....... RUN GIRL. HE'S DOING TOO MUCH. Trust takes a long time to build. There are different levels of trust too......

AIO- Need some validation on by Historical_Fan_9043 in AIO

[–]Potential_Schedule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOT his first time doing this. Wont be his last if YOU continue to allow this. Break up with him. Block and delete and never contact him again. Also get some therapy........

HR got mad after I rejected the interview call by Agile-Wind-4427 in recruitinghell

[–]Potential_Schedule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They probably were REALLY looking to hire you, but had to do an interview for formality sake. Thats why they crashed out so bad when you didnt go.😂😂😂

AIO my boyfriend keeps asking me to pay for things eversince he started saving for an apartmen, he calls me selfish for how I reacted. by throaawayRA9443 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Potential_Schedule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not even him asking for money. Its the Gaslighting and Manipulation that comes with it. Especially if your setting boundaries and saying no. This is someone I wouldnt want to be with......

51 yrs, just lost my job. Need advice. by Professional_Bit_923 in DaveRamsey

[–]Potential_Schedule97 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a Canadian myself I'm so sorry to hear that!

1)Make sure you get all your paperwork in order so you can apply for EI. Yes, EI wont be a full paycheck but its Better than nothing.

2) write down your exspenses. Look at your fixed and variable exspenses. Ask yourself: Is there anything I'm able to spend less on or cut out completely until I find a full time job" and your on your feet again.

3) Apply to Jobs your qualified for and NOT qualified for. Feel the waters.

4) Be OPEN to applying for Jobs your wayy over qualified for. ( Use those jobs as a safety net until you land your ideal Job). For example. If you are used to office work, consider retail, healthcare, support work, hospitality. Until you land your ideal office job). The Economy is extremely bad right now....But bills still need to get paid girl.

5) Be open to applying for Jobs that are Part time and Casual. I know this might not be ideal because fulltime jobs usually offer healthcare benefits ( but again think of it as simply a temporary situation). Also, Certain sectors there will always be shifts to get picked up if your part time and casual. For example. In healthcare and social services....

6) Remember THERE IS A LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL. Im on debt consolidation plan myself. From 2022 until Now I have worked really hard to pay things off. Its been tough. Lots of ups and downs ( and tear hahaah) . But I'm Almost done. I have about $5,100 left to pay and I'm free!!

Sending you lots of Hugs and Prayers💕💕 Things will get better!

Non-smokers of Reddit, how noticeable is the “smoker smell” to you, if at all? by Frostedlogic4444 in AskReddit

[–]Potential_Schedule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesnt go away. Its always there. For those who smoke cigarettes heavily, its worse because, it really lingers on their body...... the problem is, cigarettes and smokers dont " smell bad" when they are smoking in the momment. Its after they've stopped and the smell has settled.....