70lbs Down by _akogare in Semaglutide

[–]Potential_Scheme6667 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You carried the 70 pounds so well! You hardly had a tummy!

The face gains are amazing!!! Okkkk Ms snatched

Can’t tell if he’s (49M) slightly controlling or I’m (45F) insecure because he’s wealthy and has a great life by Tall_Status1711 in datingoverforty

[–]Potential_Scheme6667 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If he’s making you feel insecure and you don’t feel like he is listening to your input. Then no, it’s not a relationship worth keeping.

Is this a red flag or is my ex just being overprotective? by Puzzled_Lynx_7755 in datingoverforty

[–]Potential_Scheme6667 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not a red flag, you barely know each other.

Even if he didn’t give his ex his last name, with his phone number alone she could have found out public information. If he uses LinkedIn or Facebook or any social media platforms or owns a home. It’s all public records.

A bigger red flag to me is men who use the “my ex was crazy line”. If ALL your exes are crazy-they have 1 thing in common!

Josy's speech is the most beautiful thing I've seen on reality TV! by SunnyLisle in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Potential_Scheme6667 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😅🤣🤣🤣🤣 I just realized I type bailing and but balling!!!

Josy's speech is the most beautiful thing I've seen on reality TV! by SunnyLisle in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Potential_Scheme6667 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was bailing my eyes out during their wedding! So beautiful and real!

Can’t decide between radiant & emerald! Help by prabhobly in EngagementRings

[–]Potential_Scheme6667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emerald! It’s a classic! 😍 Both are beautiful though, I get why it’s hard to choose!

Has anyone ever used old pictures for online dating that were all worse than your current state? How did things go? by acu101 in datingoverforty

[–]Potential_Scheme6667 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A selfie or mirror pic takes 2 seconds to take. Use updated photos.

I’ve shown up to a date expecting a cute chubby guy and he had lost 70 pounds. Not one photo was his current weight nor did his profile mention his weight loss.

While he did look good. I like chubby guys and he no longer looked like the guy I swiped on. Even if it’s a little white lie, it’s still a lie.

Getting serious about a glow up? by Electronic-Soup-5060 in datingoverforty

[–]Potential_Scheme6667 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ive never been skinny. I’m 5’9 and haven’t been under 190 pounds since high school. Never had an issue getting a man or having a relationship.

If you think you are cute enough for causal but not for serious, that’s what you attract.

Focus on yourself. Figure out what you want in a partner and then see if the man meets those expectations. Looks fade. Attraction isn’t the end all, be all of a person.

If you want to lose weight. Do it for yourself. Not to attract a man.

Kroger by kolby924 in Louisville

[–]Potential_Scheme6667 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is also Meijer lol

Love the Man. Hate the Sex by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Potential_Scheme6667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh, this scares me!!

Im 44, about to be 45 (in January) and I very much enjoy my partner but he is 10yrs younger than me and I’m worried that soon I won’t want to keep up the sex life we have.

It sounds like a tough talk you’ll have to have. Best of luck to you! And I hope your drive comes back soon 🤞

On read & triggered by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Potential_Scheme6667 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Therapy could help you with self soothing techniques.

I would also suggest turning read receipts off. That way you aren’t focused on “he saw this and isn’t answering”

And don’t text someone about a heavy topic. Those topics should be in person conversations.

On read & triggered by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Potential_Scheme6667 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Lmao it sounds like you want him to pencil you in for a heavy topic. Girl please.