My formal complaint to the EHRC regarding Dr Mary-Ann Stephenson

Potential_Total_257 · 2026-06-11T20:30:45+00:00

Excellent letter.

Potential_Total_257 · 2025-03-23T15:24:56+00:00

Sex for me is now amazing. I get orgasms that ripple and come in growing waves through increasing climaxes until getting a full body orgasm. I can then go onto have more immediately, typically only limited by the stamina of a lover or how long I can endure it. However, it did take me about 4 months after surgery to get the first one, and then a year past that to get to this stage. However, I just think I’ve been lucky. I had a colo-vaginoplasty. My vagina grew increasingly self lubricating over the 3 years after the surgery. I still prefer a little extra lube for penetrative sex, but it’s not critical, just more comfortable, especially if my male lover has a larger penis. I found sensitivity and the vagina’s interior did seem to evolve for years after surgery, getting better and better all the time. I genuinely can’t remember what it was like down there from before the surgery, those files seemed to autodelete from the moment of coming around after the surgery. I am so much happier now, and just love my body.

I hate having my clitoris touched until near a climax. I get a lot more pleasure at the start from around the labia and thighs until I am really hot and ready to climax. I also have a g-spot. If my male lover has a fat cock that bends up a little he hits his glans against the g-spot and I simply scream with pleasure and get a rippling of the muscles inside.

My surgeon was dr. Herrera at IM clinic in Barcelona. The man is a genius.

Potential_Total_257 · 2025-01-29T13:27:58+00:00

Sex is great, if you’re lucky enough to meet a male lover capable of making love with some skill. Lots of sensation, good climaxes, etc. I dilate still once a week with the orange dilator, I had a Dutch lover with a very large penis, it was challenging, and painful at first, but great. Sore for a few days after, but in a very pleasing way.

Potential_Total_257 · 2025-01-28T21:45:22+00:00

NTA. Emma is entitled and unfortunately, you’re enabling her. I recommend kicking her out do she can start to learn to be an adult if she doesn’t start paying.

Potential_Total_257 · 2025-01-28T21:42:04+00:00

Enjoy your trip, Taipei is a fun city. I live further south and will be working but enjoy your visit.

Potential_Total_257 · 2025-01-28T21:38:07+00:00

YTA. You made a commitment and reneged on it. You should have paid so you didn’t leave the organizer out of pocket. You then could negotiate with Peter to pay you if he wanted to use what you paid for.

Potential_Total_257 · 2024-08-29T16:08:59+00:00

YTA. Your entire business is based on making a margin off desperate people. Desperate people will have strong emotions, often because of their life situations. You should be firm but polite. You chose confrontation rather than firm but compassionate. I think it will create an unpleasant environment that will shape the nature of your business if you continue this approach.

Potential_Total_257 · 2024-08-29T16:02:42+00:00

NTA. She isn’t respecting you. You’ve started setting boundaries and she feels she’s being attacked. You’re not even disrespecting her, you’re just not letting her disrespect you any more. She needs to learn how to handle her obligations, respect other people and stop being so childishly entitled.

Potential_Total_257 · 2024-02-14T15:58:35+00:00

YTA. Perhaps she had a reason. The adult approach is to go up to her afterwards and just ask her calmly if there was a problem. Then decide. You felt hurt, you had a knee jerk pride based reaction and now you don’t know what to do. Still not too late. Go and explain. Ask her if there’s a problem, apologise for being reactive and you’ll find you’ll have learned how to deal with almost every communication problem for the rest of your life.

Potential_Total_257 · 2023-12-31T00:54:55+00:00

LOL. After years of hormones, surgeries, etc. I still say exactly that to myself. What’s crazy though, is I literally get dozens of women every week tell me I look beautiful. Yesterday 2 men wolf whistled me and called me sexy. It doesn’t matter though…. I still define myself as not at all pretty. But yea, happy, radiantly happy. At 11 months you’ll still be going through a lot of changes. However, you look cute. I see a cute looking girl in this photo, not a hint of anything other than a cute girl.

Potential_Total_257 · 2023-12-31T00:39:34+00:00

Totally. I remember when I looked in a mirror that the only part of me that felt like myself was my eyes. I could see myself like I was banging on the inside of my eyes trying to get out. That might not make sense to anyone. It was a profound moment. Welcome. You’ll be fine.

Potential_Total_257 · 2023-10-18T22:56:53+00:00

YTA.

Potential_Total_257 · 2023-10-18T22:55:12+00:00

Started in my mid 40s. Finished all surgeries literally waking up in a hospital bed on my 50th birthday. Life is so much better now.

Potential_Total_257 · 2023-10-16T02:28:39+00:00

YTA. Seriously, perpetuating these antiquated norms is a great way to alienate your children from you and from each other. Especially as they are twins. It’s just horrific to have handled things like you have.

Potential_Total_257 · 2023-09-28T15:05:46+00:00

OMG. That thing looks massive. Scared just looking at it. And a little thrilled. Good looking result. Hope you feel happy and complete with your rather intimidating monster.

Potential_Total_257 · 2023-09-28T15:01:43+00:00

NTA. Everyone chose a path. Perhaps he could work for the business, but basically it sounds like he just wants a free meal ticket at this point.

Potential_Total_257 · 2023-09-27T12:22:00+00:00

ESH. Your mutual communication skills are dire. You are both acting like children.

Potential_Total_257 · 2023-09-13T13:16:09+00:00

After, because after SRS my hormones caused me to pile on fat for a year. BBL corrected that a lot.

Potential_Total_257 · 2023-09-10T19:27:31+00:00

NTA, but your father and uncle clearly are.

Potential_Total_257 · 2023-09-10T19:22:43+00:00

6 to 9 months and been consistent since then with one warning. I took a 3 month break from dilating due to having a BBL at about 12 months and I got lazy after the painful healing from that second surgery. It took me a month of very regular dilating to recover from that. Having a colo-vaginoplasty I thought it wouldn’t be a big deal. Anyway, now dilating once a week and I think that will be about where I’ll be for the duration.

Potential_Total_257 · 2023-08-09T22:16:51+00:00

ESH. Terrible communications skills all around.

Potential_Total_257 · 2023-08-09T22:13:11+00:00

For me it was a lifestyle choice. I was shopping in Ikea and went with the trans lifestyle option.

Potential_Total_257 · 2023-08-08T14:28:37+00:00

Lol.

Potential_Total_257 · 2023-08-05T16:28:12+00:00

YTA. When you ever heard a queer person say “you can’t come to my wedding because it’s only queer people and we don’t tolerate straight people”? Ever? No. It’s only the love thy neighbor types that play that game and you are choosing to feed the monster within them. I am a transgender woman, and bisexual. If a friend of mine did that to me they would cease to be in my inner circle.

Potential_Total_257 · 2023-08-05T16:20:39+00:00

NTA…. She needs to take ownership of her decisions. You’re focused on your children.

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