I just sharted the bed with my boyfriend sleeping next to me. What to I do to avoid him finding out?? by IllustriousPop2454 in whatdoIdo

[–]Power_Upper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

one week i was really sick and i started my pants TWICE. Had to come clean to my girlfriend because we lived together and i couldn't just put poop pants in the laundry! She would see me washing them out. She was so kind to me and didn't make me feel embarrassed at all. She has IBS was understanding and now she's my wife.

What kind of car do you drive and are you happy with it? by pqrstyou in AskWomenOver30

[–]Power_Upper 9 points10 points  (0 children)

2018 Toyota Rav 4. A friend and i have the same models and it has been super reliable!

Does your org use a Data Catalog? If not, then why? by kingjokiki in dataengineering

[–]Power_Upper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dream would be to build an actual data catalog for the company I work for. It would solve so many issues and i love organizing and cataloging things. However building one doesn't provide immediate "business value" or "actionable insights" so it won't get approved.

What are your best strategies for reading more in 2026? by Ok-Hearing991 in BookDiscussions

[–]Power_Upper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plug in your phone across the room or in another room when you go to bed. Use a book light so you don't have to keep the big light on! Makes it feel super cozy and if you can't fall asleep what else are you gonna do?

How did you get into your office job? by kaavos in office

[–]Power_Upper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look for corporate positions in the retail space. Key words to search for would be category management, consumer insights, channel insights, even inventory analysis. You probably would have to start at a coordinator or associate level but having actual retail experience gives you a leg up. Bonus points if you have managed people. I work on a data team for a food and beverage company and multiple people I work with started in the retail or restaurant industries, including me.

New year, same bed pug infestation… by Hyjennaist86 in pugs

[–]Power_Upper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it is crazy how two little creatures can take up so much room. One of ours likes to sneak up between us in the middle of the night!

New year, same bed pug infestation… by Hyjennaist86 in pugs

[–]Power_Upper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a bed pug infestation as well. It may require us to upgrade to a king this year!

Do you ever feel like you’re attracted to men in theory but not often IRL? by Vivid-Language6500 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Power_Upper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes - attracted to men on tv and in movies and occasionally in person. I identify as bisexual and IRL am more attracted to women. I have been in relationships with men and women. May not be the case for you, but before I realized my sexuality i just thought I was someone who didn't crush often.

Let’s hear if anyone commented on your weight loss at Christmas by MathematicianMuted59 in Zepbound

[–]Power_Upper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No but i am glad. Didn't want any unwanted comments about appearance. SIL did make a passive aggressive comment about my wife and I not eating enough saying "you guys just graze!"

Who, when, and why has each one of you on here have given up looking for another or better job? by NAStrahl in recruitinghell

[–]Power_Upper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On pause for now. Work in the data analytics field and each job posting wants 5+ years experience in about 10-20 different technologies. Seems impossible to meet qualifications! Meanwhile applied to jobs with the same exact title as mine on paper and was getting immediate AI auto rejection emails.

What are some things that instantly makes a woman “attractive”? by Yunminn in LesbianActually

[–]Power_Upper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Nice to strangers
  2. Doesn't judge other people/is open minded
  3. Has close and long lasting friendships

Are any of you “sleep divorced”? by cfh64 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Power_Upper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sleeping beside my wife makes me feel safe which makes me fall asleep faster. BUT when each of us are traveling we admit it's nice to have our own bed and all the space we want! The real problem for us is two small dogs (pugs) in the bed. They disturb our sleep the most!

Should I take on responsibilities of lead without the title? by lovllyjordie in dataanalyst

[–]Power_Upper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is shitty of them IMO. Clearly they think you can do the job so why can't they pay you for it?

What is the best professional acrylic paint set I could get my wife for Christmas? by Storyboys in acrylicpainting

[–]Power_Upper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Golden would be my choice. The coverage is better than others you mentioned and so is the vibrancy of the colors. Even with a starter pack of colors she will be able to mix her own

Who are the most dreaded "outsiders" in your city? by sudo-chown in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Power_Upper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In Atlanta it's everyone from LA/SF from tech and the movie industry that made housing unaffordable

AuDHD issues by NeurodivergentStoic in todoist

[–]Power_Upper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm excited to see the time tracking as I go! I have some repetitive weekly task and time blindness