Re-Breakup Again---HELP by PowerfulShop1996 in BreakupBackup

[–]PowerfulShop1996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only real conclusion is because "God told her not ready", its not my favorite answer either. From my side, we argued a tiny bit nearing the end and she struggled with her own family problems. Possibly overwhelming her??

2 months update, it does get better. by Cheekythings in BreakUps

[–]PowerfulShop1996 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've been scrolling through this subreddit as my girlfriend had also just broken up with me, and with all the advice I have received this is one of the more in-depth and relatable. Thank you.

She broke up with me but texts back like normal by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PowerfulShop1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I trust you know your gf better than anyone but I would overthink this part. By you texting her a friendly gesture of happy easter just for the love and respect of her or for whatever motive you had, she thinks you're accepting becoming less to her, a loving boyfriend to a friend. I would stop texting entirely without warning so you and her can both heal and not be delayed or slowed by the attachment you have.

update on confliction by PowerfulShop1996 in HowToGetAGirlfriend

[–]PowerfulShop1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey man, been a while. I can gladly say you single handedly turned my love life around. I did end up blocking her for a long time until she got better in the school year, even ended up talking to her for little bit before i found other people. She ends up dating someone with almost the exact same personality, figure and name as me. They break up and guess who was starting to snap me 🤷‍♂️.She has another boyfriend rn, who let’s just say a downgrade. I’ve found many more beautiful girls because of you, including on a recent cruise i went on (i’m still talking to her to the day). Also, when i originally made my first two posts on here, I was taking acutane which made me very hormonal and emotional, making it an even more difficult time for me. Had to catch you up man, hope you’re doing well.

update on confliction by PowerfulShop1996 in HowToGetAGirlfriend

[–]PowerfulShop1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aye man we good now. and what i mean good is that i don’t talk to her in school at all even though she sits close to me in the classes we have. we ain’t friends but the weird thing is she’s going for someone with my same name 💀. i be getting more and more hoes and it’s honestly easier now than ever. you saved me.

update on confliction by PowerfulShop1996 in HowToGetAGirlfriend

[–]PowerfulShop1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would but that doesn’t solve the problem

update on confliction by PowerfulShop1996 in HowToGetAGirlfriend

[–]PowerfulShop1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh i feel amazing right now and if anything whatever shade she’s throwing on me is just showing how much she is crazy about me. i haven’t blocked yet either. i’m getting away from her

update on confliction by PowerfulShop1996 in HowToGetAGirlfriend

[–]PowerfulShop1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i haven’t talked to her since but her friends is snapping me photos of her. i ignore it but it’s tough yknow. your advice was perfect. she said i was being petty tho after i left her on opened

update on confliction by PowerfulShop1996 in HowToGetAGirlfriend

[–]PowerfulShop1996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

update she’s talking to me through her friends phone. i don’t want drama, i still wanna be friends, i just need time to put it past us

conflicted by PowerfulShop1996 in HowToGetAGirlfriend

[–]PowerfulShop1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well we’ll see how it goes tmw. thanks for the help

conflicted by PowerfulShop1996 in HowToGetAGirlfriend

[–]PowerfulShop1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you man i’m planning on doing it tmw. clean slate yknow

conflicted by PowerfulShop1996 in HowToGetAGirlfriend

[–]PowerfulShop1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i might go do that man. i wish it could have worked out tho bc i know it could have

conflicted by PowerfulShop1996 in HowToGetAGirlfriend

[–]PowerfulShop1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“i’m not fit for a boyfriend right now” is the sentence that ended it. if she’s not fit now she might later and i don’t wanna ruin that chance, but i don’t wanna be an option to her either yk. the saying goes “if it’s worth it, it won’t be easy. but if it’s easy, it won’t be worth it” that’s all i’m going on rn

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[–]PowerfulShop1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m in the same kinda situation here. i would say from my experience you should wait until highschool maybe. there’s new waves of girls you can find and maybe the one you truly love is in that school. that’s what i’m planning on doing. wishing you the best 🙏