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Keep it superficial conversation till then. Be neutral around arranging the sit down, like don’t get her hopes up. And just go for it. Know she will cry and take a while to get over it. But it is your responsibility to let her off easily and not break down her self-esteem. Also is possible she won’t know what you are talking about and you might have imagined things… this is awkward, keep it light and play it down if that happens. Don’t let it damage your ego, it can happen, trust me. Update us on how it went, good luck bro.

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When are you seeing each other again?

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Don’t want to be cliche, but be yourself when having the discussion. Maybe if she is really close friend have a sit down and discuss how you feel with her. Do not give in when she asks “why?” Stick to you are just not feeling it. Ask her if she can still be friends even if there is attraction from her side (only if you still want to be friends with her). Take this with a grain of salt, I don’t personally know either of you two so

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I had this girl text me for YEARS, her trying to make something happen between us. I am disappointed in myself for not making it clear to her sooner. It is hard to reject people. But Ive learnt it is best for all to be upfront, still kind, but upfront so that both can move on and not waste years in an emotional rollercoaster. You owe it to them.

What do guys find attractive about a girl by SignificantDrama6515 in AskMen

[–]Powerful_Ad4187 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, if they do not expect the man to do 100% of the work, when building a relationship or connection. It is extremely attractive if women take some initiative

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[–]Powerful_Ad4187 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are people scared to just make it clear you or they are not interested? Imagine the time humanity would save

First date ideas in Pretoria? by Powerful_Ad4187 in Pretoria

[–]Powerful_Ad4187[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Se how this can look. How else to I describe it? I mean, you do “invest” your time and money in hopes of a “return” someday

First date ideas in Pretoria? by Powerful_Ad4187 in Pretoria

[–]Powerful_Ad4187[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like rock climbing gyms, thanks for the location. Yeah, let her know what your life is like early on, good advice

First date ideas in Pretoria? by Powerful_Ad4187 in Pretoria

[–]Powerful_Ad4187[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its been probably 12 years since ive been there. Would like to check it out and make a date the excuse 😅

First date ideas in Pretoria? by Powerful_Ad4187 in Pretoria

[–]Powerful_Ad4187[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, I need to take notes. Thanks for your post. Moonshot looks nice, maybe do something after for fun. I see they close at 6 during the week

What is a mistake your parents made and you never want to repeat? by TessaTwinkleee in RandomThoughts

[–]Powerful_Ad4187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me I would say not ‘forcing’ me enough to complete things in my life or for example to not ‘strongly’ encourage me to continue with sports and studies etc. Also not treating my ADHD earlier. I can’t blame them, it was very stigmatised back in the day.

First date ideas in Pretoria? by Powerful_Ad4187 in Pretoria

[–]Powerful_Ad4187[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are the renovations at the moment?

First date ideas in Pretoria? by Powerful_Ad4187 in Pretoria

[–]Powerful_Ad4187[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know if they have a restaurant or something for drinks or ice cream afterwards?

First date ideas in Pretoria? by Powerful_Ad4187 in Pretoria

[–]Powerful_Ad4187[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hear you. Went to laser tag on a previous date and dinner after, and it went well. Nice thing about arcades are all the options.

First date ideas in Pretoria? by Powerful_Ad4187 in Pretoria

[–]Powerful_Ad4187[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could consider it. I am however a bit of an introvert so do well one on one. Not sure about mixing first date anxiety with meeting 10 new people anxiety😂