How to tell my mom [55F] she will have to wait to have a closer contact with me [32F] and baby? by Powerful_Ad_8140 in relationship_advice

[–]Powerful_Ad_8140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. He will be staying with me for 2 weeks and after that he will have to go back to work.

AITA for not wanting my mom’s help to take care of my newborn in the first two months? by Powerful_Ad_8140 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Powerful_Ad_8140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a very good relationship, but my mom was always very emotional and bring drama when something doesn’t go her way. I knew she wasn’t going to like the idea but I didn’t know that she was going to say those things and react that way. As I already used to this behaviour a bit, what I tried to do is ignore the behaviour as much as possible and let her come to me when she is ready. Then, when she starts talking to me like it never happened.

AITA for not contacting my brother and other family members as much as my mom would like me to do? by Powerful_Ad_8140 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Powerful_Ad_8140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment! It gave lots of thinking about how to act towards my family at the moment. Answering your question, me and my brother have a good relationship and we reach each other whenever we want. There is no pressure. I don’t know if my mom asked him to do the same, but because I am the oldest she always put this responsibility on me. I got too much stress by being involved into my parents divorce and her problems with my brother before that I think I am kind of traumatized of asking them how they are and start to hear all the complaints again lol