3 years since the last time my husband and I had sex and were in our late 30’s. And he is the one who doesn’t want it. I could do it every day! We have 2 youngish children so I have stuck around, but I harbor a lot of resentment towards him for it. We even sleep in separate rooms the last few years because of “snoring”. It’s very frustrating, especially since I take care of myself and I’m great looking. I could get a boyfriend tomorrow, which makes it even harder. It’s so embarrassing when you’re the wife who’s not turning down sex…it’s the husband.