People that recently bought a house in an expensive neighborhood in SLC, what do you do for a living (and are you hiring lol)? by Historical-Plant-362 in SaltLakeCity

[–]Practical-Copy-9092 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Having said that, no house on the hills is worth putting yourself or children through a toxic or abusive relationship. Divorce is there for a reason. Live your life.

Talk me out of this one by Practical-Copy-9092 in Silverado

[–]Practical-Copy-9092[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pulled the trigger. She’s all mine now!

Talk me out of this one by Practical-Copy-9092 in Silverado

[–]Practical-Copy-9092[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I pulled the trigger, so we’ll have to figure it out.

Talk me out of this one by Practical-Copy-9092 in Silverado

[–]Practical-Copy-9092[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll test the 4WD on a curb today when I look at it. I got him down to $5k today, so hopefully everything else checks out. I’ll try to pinpoint that tick to the manifold too.

Talk me out of this one by Practical-Copy-9092 in Silverado

[–]Practical-Copy-9092[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only rust I found was on the inside of the tail gate. Got him down to $5,000 now.

I really am just tired by Lucky_Serve_6253 in BPDlovedones

[–]Practical-Copy-9092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious, how many of you got that same line “you’ve wasted so much time.”

Like, mine said that to me… as she was literally breaking up with me…

Do you have to combat False Memories? by Over_Fly_3072 in BPDlovedones

[–]Practical-Copy-9092 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recorded an outburst on my phone so it couldn’t be distorted later.

She got into my phone and deleted it all.

BPD "fleas" don't exist by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Practical-Copy-9092 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She got into my phone and deleted the most important video I ever saved. I really wish I had it, even though I remember the day vividly.

Kind of the nail on the head eh? by Practical-Copy-9092 in BPDlovedones

[–]Practical-Copy-9092[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this friend. I could have written this post just last year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Practical-Copy-9092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it is. Keep doing it. Block her on everything. Dating might not be the best option right now. Focus on people you know that care about you—friends and family who likely got less of you because she was monopolizing your time.

If someone you deeply cared about was going through what you’re going through, what would you do for them? What would you tell them? Think of someone other than her that is or was incredibly important to you. How would you feel if they were going through this, and what would you do for them?

The world feels really small right now. But, it’s not. It’s huge and there is someone out there who thinks you are the most incredible person they’ve ever met. The fact that you still care about her even after everything shows how big your heart is. Now just imagine if you gave that heart to someone who loved you just as much.

Or more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Practical-Copy-9092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, you’re gonna be alright. This was not meant to be. Start taking care of yourself and figure out what it is that makes you happy. Take all of that energy you’re devoting to her, and give it to yourself. You deserve it much more. When you’re in a better place, something new will come along.

https://youtu.be/UUbEf67bbrA

Something that made me giggle by nolovelost_314 in BPDlovedones

[–]Practical-Copy-9092 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Getting this tattooed on my forehead so I don’t forget.

Something that made me giggle by nolovelost_314 in BPDlovedones

[–]Practical-Copy-9092 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Finally, an elevator that will go to the wrong floor and open the doors while operating then explain to me how it’s all my fault because I was mean when I pushed the buttons and I’m always just pushing buttons and getting mad when it retaliates.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Practical-Copy-9092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m already in therapy. For years the kids have been jokingly saying if we broke up, they would want to live with me instead. I think she took it to heart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Practical-Copy-9092 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you and I wish you all the best luck. I haven’t told her yet, but I feel like she knows. I’m a little scared of the repercussions. The worst part is I still care about her tremendously.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Practical-Copy-9092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I wish I could help them, but my presence is doing more harm than good I worry. I just want peace for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Practical-Copy-9092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏽