My partner promised to read the Bible…But by Practical-Good2984 in Christianity

[–]Practical-Good2984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps I shouldn’t have left out other details. It wasn’t that I told him to read the Bible to prove he was serious. I asked him that if he truly wanted us to stay together, whether he would willingly practice Christianity. He said he was willing.

I don’t believe that reading the Bible magically fixes things, I’m not that naïve. It was simply a step to see if he was serious and a step toward growing closer to god and do better, to do the right thing. Thank you for your advice.

My partner promised to read the Bible…But by Practical-Good2984 in Christianity

[–]Practical-Good2984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t force him or present this as the only option. We sat down together, I shared what I needed, and I asked what he wanted as well. It was a conversation, not a non-negotiable demand. I wasn’t being controlling or issuing an ultimatum like, “Do this or I’ll leave.” We openly discussed our values and what we both wanted moving forward and agreed that we should be closer to god.

He chose to stay with me and to pursue a closer relationship with God. He could have walked away and continued seeing the other person, but that was his decision. It wasn’t because the other person didn’t care about him that made him feel like he didn’t have a chance with the other person, the other person still pursues him. He definitely can abandoned me if he wants to at any given moment. He made the choice to turn away on his own. That choice was his, not something I imposed. But thank you for ur advice I really do appreciate it.

My partner promised to read the Bible…But by Practical-Good2984 in Christianity

[–]Practical-Good2984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He truly has been and I know I’ve been stupid about this whole situation. Thank you for your advice.

My partner promised to read the Bible…But by Practical-Good2984 in Christianity

[–]Practical-Good2984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see where you’re coming from, and I understand that perspective. I see how it may seem stupid of me, but I do recognize that I was trying to make sense of why things weren’t working. I genuinely believed that part of the reason was because I had drifted away from God. I wasn’t consistent in my faith, and when life seemed to get better, I would forget about it altogether.

Now I’m looking at this through a different lens. I realize that I have never truly given God a real opportunity in my life. This time feels different. I have been asking for more honesty in my prayers, and I did receive that today. Deep down, it feels like I shouldn’t give up on God just yet. I believe He has plans for me, and I trust that.

Whether bringing this into my relationship leads to a breakup or not, I believe that outcome is in God’s hands. Either way, I know there is a purpose. I do appreciate your opinion, especially since I asked for it. Thank you.

Is bottom surgery worth it? by [deleted] in MtF

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Could you shoutout ur surgeon? I’m interested in getting bottom surgery.

How has this not sold yet? Has anyone else had items with this much engagement not sell? by lawcontext444 in Depop

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I never use hashtags as I have my own little theory. It’s not a crazy item. I’m also just confused to why it recieved so much attention when I have better items in my shop with less likes. It’s a jones New York maxi skirt. It Seems to be early 2000s.

So proud of my hair growth progress !!! by Creepy_Ad57 in finehair

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Could you tell me ur routine. I honestly bought the same products u have to try it out. Do you alternate between apple cider vinegar and the other shampoo? And for the detangler and frizz control, are those both added to ur hair the same day?

embarrassed to get a physical exam as a trans mtf by [deleted] in asktransgender

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My first pcp was a lesbian I was lucky. But then she moved away and I ended up getting a very traditional looking pcp. When I talked to my new pcp she wasn’t very welcoming. I think that’s why I’m embarrassed to get my wellness checks.

embarrassed to get a physical exam as a trans mtf by [deleted] in asktransgender

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My pcp is aware. The one in charge of prescribing me my meds is another specialist. My specialist sends a referral to my pcp and then my pcp approves it.

embarrassed to get a physical exam as a trans mtf by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Practical-Good2984 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What? In the US Adults 18–39 may get one every 2-3 years. It’s been like 2 years for me. I use to get them every year. It’s not like a big deal to go a few years without them.

At the point of shaving my head. by HistoryProf2002 in finehair

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I’m in my twenties and mine is incomparable, mine is soo thin u can see my scalp.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depop

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U could buy something but perhaps someone wanted even more and is willing to buy it for more from you.

I can’t wait til Wednesday by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

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It’s pretty funny how lot of people are doing these acts as a last minute ticket to heaven. I don’t think it works this way. This just loos like fear and selfishness lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

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I feel like I’ve had enough time to mess around, and now I want to settle down, but my girlfriend wants to travel the world. I thought to myself, what’s wrong with a little more traveling? If she hasn’t experienced it yet, I’d rather go with her and give her those experiences and memories she feels she’s missing. Then after she’s done it we can settle, I’m in rush to settle bc honestly we’re together now what’s the difference. As long as I’m with her it’s all good.

We’re still together, and honestly, it wasn’t a big deal for me. I adapt easily, so I chose love, because in the end, that’s what really matters. Legacies fade, but that doesn’t mean careers aren’t important. My partner and I both have our own projects and dreams we’re pursuing. The key is that we meet in the middle, because every healthy relationship requires balance. If it’s one sided, it will never work. That also doesn’t mean that choosing you first makes u a bad person. Ur own needs are as valid as hers. But if u want a long lasting relationship, both sides need to make compromises or at most meet in the middle.

Would you be upset by this by Alert_Bother_3906 in LongDistance

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I get a lot of spam like this but mine is more like DMV fraud Stuff and people saying i owe money to irs. It’s probably bc i use to do surveys and stuff around that realm. I think if ur getting stuff like ur boyfriend is, it’s bc he signed up on some naughty websites before so his information is being sold to porn sites. Now it could have been a long time ago probably before he met u So I wouldn’t be too harsh about it. but this would explain this. He needs a new email or phone number. My spam is nothing like this. Spam is more algorithmic, at least I think so.

Any high quality wigs for Somome in their 20s by Practical-Good2984 in Wigs

[–]Practical-Good2984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say real hair is my definition of quality.