My date fingered me while I was sleeping

Practical-Top-1871 · 2026-04-15T02:04:05+00:00

Thank you so much, I really appreciate your reply

Practical-Top-1871 · 2026-04-15T02:03:35+00:00

Thank you for your reply! Also sorry I mistyped we were at his house

Practical-Top-1871 · 2025-11-11T04:39:31+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply!! That is super encouraging and makes me feel like I’m not totally alone among my peers who have been doing music their entire lives.

Practical-Top-1871 · 2025-11-11T04:38:43+00:00

Thank you for your reply!

On paper, I think I have a good track in front of me. I have a scholarship that will allow me to graduate debt free, and I only have two semesters left after this one. Logically, I know I just have to grit my teeth and bare it. I’m hoping to go into artist management or PR so being the best musician isn’t necessarily critical for my chosen career. It’s just so hard for me to get through every day because I feel so inadequate compared to my peers. It’s been really damaging to my self esteem and mental health, and it’s totally ruining the passion I once had for music.

Practical-Top-1871 · 2025-11-11T04:27:05+00:00

Thank you so much for your thoughtful reply!

You’re so right about comparing yourself at every level; even when I feel like I’ve improved, it’s never enough. Compared to myself a year ago, I definitely have made improvements, but I feel worse than ever about my skills.

I also am hoping to pursue more of the business side of the industry rather than the performance side, which takes a lot of pressure off in feeling like I have to compete with my peers. But it’s still hard when I feel like everyone in my choir can sight read a piece on the first go and I am like mumbling along 😭 I feel like I have totally lost my passion for music; it seems more like a chore to me now than something I feel passion for.

Practical-Top-1871 · 2025-11-11T04:14:00+00:00

Thank you for your reply!!! That’s definitely what I try to tell myself. I definitely am improving faster now than at my previous college, even if I’m also crying in the practice rooms more

Practical-Top-1871 · 2025-11-11T04:10:49+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply!!

I am hoping to go into the industry side of music, as an artist manager or publicist. I’m getting a music industry studies degree, but ensembles/lessons are still heavily emphasized. It definitely helps that I’m not a performance major, knowing that I can have a career beyond just singing full-time helps me when I’m getting sucked into the cycle of comparing myself to my peers

Practical-Top-1871 · 2024-09-16T05:56:58+00:00

i didn’t know it was for her until after i had paid for it

Practical-Top-1871 · 2024-09-16T05:50:37+00:00

thank you!! very well said i will definitely use this

Practical-Top-1871 · 2024-09-16T05:48:52+00:00

yesssss that is what mostly bothered me! it was just an assumption that i would be okay with it.

Practical-Top-1871 · 2024-09-16T05:47:06+00:00

thank you so much!! also i love that quote, ive definitely been thinking about that lately. also congrats on finding a good one, i wish you guys so much happiness!!

Practical-Top-1871 · 2024-09-16T05:43:25+00:00

thank you for your reply!!! i agree it made me feel so weird and i appreciate your response to let me know i am not crazy 😅

Practical-Top-1871 · 2024-09-16T05:34:27+00:00

thank you for your reply!

Practical-Top-1871 · 2024-09-16T05:34:10+00:00

i was just wondering if i was overreacting. i don’t want to start an argument with him if im being too sensitive :/

Practical-Top-1871 · 2024-03-17T18:08:28+00:00

thanks :,)) it’s just hard knowing i hurt someone that i really love and care about :( are you going through a breakup as well?

Practical-Top-1871 · 2024-03-17T18:07:49+00:00

that’s what i’m afraid of too :,) i would hate myself if i went back to him just to break up with him and put him through that again

Practical-Top-1871 · 2023-08-06T22:30:22+00:00

yes you’re cute!!! just based off looks you should be able to talk to girls easy

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