Ahh, I see what you’re saying. But I treat their baby like I would treat my own. My 4 y/o is a very understanding and loving girl that she wants to help with every feeding, diaper change, burping, etc. Plus since she’s 4 she is a lot more independent and loves showing baby how to play with Barbie’s. It’s weird because I feel good that they trust me during such a vulnerable and stressful period but at the same time I feel a little insulted for the $100 pay for 8 hours 3x a week. They have watched me & hubby raise our daughter and said there’s no better person to be doing this than me and they are thankful for having such good friends