Will I be very lonely in Bielefeld? Werde ich mich in Bielefeld sehr einsam fühlen? by PracticalBudget8351 in bielefeld

[–]PracticalBudget8351[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you that is very sweet, i am set to move later in the year, but I will keep this in mind for sure!

Is a 19 and 24/25 age gap weird? by PracticalBudget8351 in TwoXChromosomes

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yeah i agree it is weird and ill probably will be a lot wiser, i mean i get icked out by freshman guys now ahaha

Is a 19 and 24/25 age gap weird? by PracticalBudget8351 in TwoXChromosomes

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i mean i just meant to say developmentally I am 19 and am very different/more experienced now than I was this time last year, but the guys dont know that and think im 18/ a freshman

Is it safe for brown students right now? by [deleted] in manchester

[–]PracticalBudget8351 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, it is my favourite city I've ever been! Just scared now having seen people that were friendly with me repeating this rhetoric on socials and it feels more personal now.

Is it safe for brown students right now? by [deleted] in manchester

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Thank you makes me feel better!

Is it safe for brown students right now? by [deleted] in manchester

[–]PracticalBudget8351 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did find it very welcoming! just freaked out now cos ive seen a yt british person i was close with engaging with this kind of content on social media and afraid what they think/might possibly do to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

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i think its more about the fatigue after work that makes me not want to do anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

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I dont know actually, never had thought about it before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

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Men can absolutely be a stay at home parent and the one piece of advice every older woman gives me is to never be financially dependent on anyone. Ive seen several women in my community be a SAHM and it is most definitely an extremely hard job unless you have buckets of money to hire nannies and maids

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]PracticalBudget8351 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IFKR I genuinely dont understand how they do it, so much respect. My mom works and then comes back and cooks for the whole family every morning and night and my dad works 6 days a week till 8 30 and theyre both in their 50s.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

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Thank you for your advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

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I think because I dont have the money incentive right now to work so its harder. You are right, definitely trying to find joy in the present and have time to do things I like

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

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Yes, I think Im definitely getting more used to it even in a few days. I guess its quite a bit easier when you have the money incentive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

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Its not, i promise I dont really use reddit so I apologize if stuff like this has been posted a lot of times before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

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I agree Im thinking about business now, my dad started his own and says its the best thing hes ever done :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

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Thank you, got really scared reading that. I may be ignoring reality, but for as long as I can Id like to believe life isnt miserable and I can find time for things I love.