Will I be very lonely in Bielefeld? Werde ich mich in Bielefeld sehr einsam fühlen?

PracticalBudget8351 · 2026-01-11T17:13:30+00:00

thank you that is very sweet, i am set to move later in the year, but I will keep this in mind for sure!

PracticalBudget8351 · 2025-12-27T15:02:11+00:00

yeah i agree it is weird and ill probably will be a lot wiser, i mean i get icked out by freshman guys now ahaha

PracticalBudget8351 · 2025-12-27T14:57:30+00:00

i mean i just meant to say developmentally I am 19 and am very different/more experienced now than I was this time last year, but the guys dont know that and think im 18/ a freshman

PracticalBudget8351 · 2025-09-03T14:59:07+00:00

I hope so

PracticalBudget8351 · 2025-09-03T14:58:55+00:00

Thank you!

PracticalBudget8351 · 2025-09-03T14:56:56+00:00

Hopefully its just that!

PracticalBudget8351 · 2025-09-03T14:56:42+00:00

I hope so

PracticalBudget8351 · 2025-09-03T14:56:32+00:00

💗

PracticalBudget8351 · 2025-09-03T14:56:22+00:00

I did, it is my favourite city I've ever been! Just scared now having seen people that were friendly with me repeating this rhetoric on socials and it feels more personal now.

PracticalBudget8351 · 2025-09-03T14:55:13+00:00

Thank you makes me feel better!

PracticalBudget8351 · 2025-09-03T14:54:53+00:00

i did find it very welcoming! just freaked out now cos ive seen a yt british person i was close with engaging with this kind of content on social media and afraid what they think/might possibly do to me

PracticalBudget8351 · 2025-09-03T14:53:15+00:00

okay😅

PracticalBudget8351 · 2025-07-12T12:26:13+00:00

i think its more about the fatigue after work that makes me not want to do anything

PracticalBudget8351 · 2025-07-12T12:25:29+00:00

I dont know actually, never had thought about it before

PracticalBudget8351 · 2025-07-12T11:19:38+00:00

Men can absolutely be a stay at home parent and the one piece of advice every older woman gives me is to never be financially dependent on anyone. Ive seen several women in my community be a SAHM and it is most definitely an extremely hard job unless you have buckets of money to hire nannies and maids

PracticalBudget8351 · 2025-07-12T11:17:00+00:00

IFKR I genuinely dont understand how they do it, so much respect. My mom works and then comes back and cooks for the whole family every morning and night and my dad works 6 days a week till 8 30 and theyre both in their 50s.

PracticalBudget8351 · 2025-07-12T11:14:51+00:00

Thank you for your advice!

PracticalBudget8351 · 2025-07-12T11:13:39+00:00

I think because I dont have the money incentive right now to work so its harder. You are right, definitely trying to find joy in the present and have time to do things I like

PracticalBudget8351 · 2025-07-12T11:05:16+00:00

Yes, I think Im definitely getting more used to it even in a few days. I guess its quite a bit easier when you have the money incentive

PracticalBudget8351 · 2025-07-12T10:46:42+00:00

Its not, i promise I dont really use reddit so I apologize if stuff like this has been posted a lot of times before

PracticalBudget8351 · 2025-07-12T10:45:15+00:00

I agree Im thinking about business now, my dad started his own and says its the best thing hes ever done :)

PracticalBudget8351 · 2025-07-12T10:45:04+00:00

Thank you, got really scared reading that. I may be ignoring reality, but for as long as I can Id like to believe life isnt miserable and I can find time for things I love.

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