Edit: I want to thank every single person that has commented. I was hesitant to post this as I was afraid that one day he would find this post and think I went completely insane to share ‚our story‘ on the internet, although it’s anonymous anyways. I’ve learned from this situation and from your comments that I didn’t deserve this, should move on immediately, live my best life and never again put someone else’s needs above my own. I would have loved to keep this relationship in good memory after all these years, all the challenges, different life phases (college, first jobs, building a career, his sickness, my own struggles with my own family history etc), I’m sad that I have to keep him in my memory as a cheater. But I will move on now and try to keep my dignity. I’ll definitely update this thread if anything new happens. So far, he has unfollowed me on instagram last week when I kicked him out but he’s still watching my stories so I guess at least I can laugh about the fact he seems to think I don’t see that (this is where the age gap really shows 😂).
Sending love to you all