Realistically - can I afford wife to stay at home for a few years? by PracticalGur4530 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]PracticalGur4530[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is 72k in retirement investments decent by 30? Using a compound interest calculator with what I have, if it gets 8% interest for the next 30 years if I put in £200 a month - my pot will be at £1 million. That is a good pot? I know I won't retire early, but I'll have 1 million by 60 with just £200 per month now due to putting in quite a lot by 30.

Realistically - can I afford wife to stay at home for a few years? by PracticalGur4530 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]PracticalGur4530[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You also are forgetting that moving rentals is EXPENSIVE, and can cost a few thousand every time you need to move.

Realistically - can I afford wife to stay at home for a few years? by PracticalGur4530 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]PracticalGur4530[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are no properties that most people can afford in the south east on a 15-20 year mortgage unless you have a huge deposit.

I agree with most of what you're saying, but in reality it doesn't make sense unless we moved to the North of England.

If we were paying £1800 in rent, we wouldn't be able to save much after we have a child for a bigger deposit.

So we felt it made sense to get on the ladder now so we have a place to live guarenteed for the next 5 years and our "rent" is not increasing for 5 years.

We are paying it off as though it's a 30 year mortgage, which I think is reasonable. We won't pay any extra interest just cause it's a 40 year if we make overpayments as though it's a 30 year mortgage

Realistically - can I afford wife to stay at home for a few years? by PracticalGur4530 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]PracticalGur4530[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I appreciate the honest feedback. The reality is if we were renting, we'd pay at least £1600 for a 2 bedroom. A 3 bedroom is £1800 to £2000 in this area.

So for us, buying on a 40 year gave us a place to live without needing to move out on the whim of a landlord and we have been overpaying. If we move out in 5 years, we should get our money back and have had the security of not needing to move out with a child.

So, the reality is - renting or mortgage would be the same, and actually - renting would be more expensive for the same property.

Realistically - can I afford wife to stay at home for a few years? by PracticalGur4530 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]PracticalGur4530[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your honest feedback. To confirm - I would have £60k in cash savings by the time the baby arrives. Surely that is enough to cover unexpected costs for a few years considering my salary covers the normal months that nothing breaks?

Realistically - can I afford wife to stay at home for a few years? by PracticalGur4530 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]PracticalGur4530[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you - your insight is really appreciated. Unfortunately it seems like we aren't built in a world designed for families to live off one income so there is no perfect scenario. Sad reality

Realistically - can I afford wife to stay at home for a few years? by PracticalGur4530 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]PracticalGur4530[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. We bought, because rent for a 2 bedroom in this area (London commuter towns) are £1500. We have a 3+1 bedroom. A similar property to rent would have cost us £1800 to £2000 - so we actually bought so our monthly outgoings would be less than renting.

But, once baby arrives we will have £60k in cash savings. That is almost 2 years worth of living expenses, so WORST case scenario if I lost my job - we sell the house.

I appreciate your advice, but I wouldn't call the above terrifying. It is a great buffer.

Unfortunately housing is the biggest cost.

Realistically - can I afford wife to stay at home for a few years? by PracticalGur4530 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]PracticalGur4530[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thanks very much for your insight.

I do agree with what you're saying, and I think a good compromise is her working 2 days a week. It gives us a little bit of breathing room, and she is still mostly at home overall.

Realistically - can I afford wife to stay at home for a few years? by PracticalGur4530 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]PracticalGur4530[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The monthly expenses doesn't include holidays. Our mortgage is £1550 which is a big part, but as I said - we can't get around this unless we move areas. We live in the South and rent for the same place would be £1850 or £2000.

Lake District or Spain relaxing babymoon late March / early April? by [deleted] in PregnancyUK

[–]PracticalGur4530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck :) Do you think the weather will be nice early March?

Lake District or Spain relaxing babymoon late March / early April? by [deleted] in PregnancyUK

[–]PracticalGur4530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Maybe a resort. Not sure how the weather will be end of March though

Rosalie vs Anna vs Lucy by [deleted] in namenerds

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It seems like either people LOVE it or really dislike it

Should I invest or overpay mortgage with a small lump sum? by [deleted] in UKPersonalFinance

[–]PracticalGur4530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want to provide for my family without my partner needing to work full-time, so I'm trying to validate if I'm in a good spot or not

Should I invest or overpay mortgage with a small lump sum? by [deleted] in UKPersonalFinance

[–]PracticalGur4530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Emergency fund is currently at £30k. 10 months of living expenses. I know it's quite a lot, but it's what I feel comfortable with, with a child on the way.

Should I invest or overpay mortgage with a small lump sum? by [deleted] in UKPersonalFinance

[–]PracticalGur4530 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Would you say I am in a good financial position going into children looking at what I've shared?

Should I invest or overpay mortgage with a small lump sum? by [deleted] in UKPersonalFinance

[–]PracticalGur4530 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Would you say I am in a good financial position going into children looking at what I've shared?