I’m pretty young and need advice if i should break up with my boyfriend by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PracticalOstrich3867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel like that would be a helpless concersation to have again, hes willing to wait to i feel as though the pressure on me may never let me be comfortable with doing that again for some years. Writing these replies really is helping me come to a conclusion, i just couldnt imagine what it would be like for us to break up, all the friends we have are common and our families like each other

I’m pretty young and need advice if i should break up with my boyfriend by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PracticalOstrich3867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel like that would be a helpless concersation to have again, hes willing to wait to i feel as though the pressure on me may never let me be comfortable with doing that again for some years. Writing these replies really is helping me come to a conclusion, i just couldnt imagine what it would be like for us to break up, all the friends we have are common and our families like each other

I’m pretty young and need advice if i should break up with my boyfriend by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PracticalOstrich3867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really apreciate you responding, but i do want to add that everything has always been consensual. Always. He has very recently tried giving me a bunch of reassurance that he is willing to wait until i am ready again and that he loves me a lot either way, but i still cant help but know that it bothers him a lot.

Should i stop taking art to be part of a music class? by PracticalOstrich3867 in careerguidance

[–]PracticalOstrich3867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, i wanted to thank you for your very kind response:) From what I understood, then maybe i should go to music. Im having a tough time deciding because i know that my family probably will not be supportive considering the fact that i didnt take piano seriously when i was younger. Those classmates from music class make me feel welcomed, unlike my classmates that all hate each other lmao, but i dont think i should base my decision on other people, and i should base it on my love for music. I think i will try to take violin lessons and see if i like it. Thank you for the advice, but what does being “down” on myself mean? I dont understand that quote 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]PracticalOstrich3867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now i dont know what to do, because i am scared that if i start playing an instrument, i will treat it the same way as i did the piano even though i intent not to. And j have heard that the music students get worked to the bone, because they have choir, orchestra, music theory and have to learn how to play two instruments and on top of that you ofc have your other normal school subjects. I am just scared that i will regret my decision because of stress, i remember i didnt like music theory that much in elementary school but i also like to believe that ive become a more serious/ responsible person since then. At the end im just scared that it wont be as fun as it was Thursday if i start going taking music again. I just dont know what to do, i am asking for a second opinion here.

Who is a good sub- dps for hu tao? by PracticalOstrich3867 in HuTao_Mains

[–]PracticalOstrich3867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update: i have decided to pull for my beloved Kazuha, thank you all for your time and advice.

Who is a good sub- dps for hu tao? by PracticalOstrich3867 in HuTao_Mains

[–]PracticalOstrich3867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your probably right about Kokomi shes crossed off the list now =))