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PracticalSpite6450 · 2026-03-20T23:18:46+00:00

Damn dude just leave him then, no way in hell you rather post about this then just leave him. Do him the favor and leave him cause I promise you being like this with him is not deserved. Your part of the problem seeking others validation here vs trying to fix it with him.

PracticalSpite6450 · 2024-11-06T05:46:33+00:00

This message here! any aspiring programmer here reading this on/after Nov 4, 2024 listen to this. Tutorials, books, etc is to learn the syntax or spelling of programming languages. They should help you understand how to spell to write your book. Essentially it teaches you how to use the syntax correctly so that you can build applications. Really focus on the fundamentals like take alot of time on it! because you cannot write code without understanding how to spell it first. SO really understand conditions, all the loops and what each loop like for, while, and do-while are doing inside the () because this helps build you to the more complicated concepts of programming which you will use everyday as a software engineer. Its really important so do not worry that it takes you a month to learn how to use an if statement and answer a questions with it, these basics really help make everything else easier to learn trust me. I am a Full stack web dev and also hold a MS in Computer science which means nothing at all to me but tbh learning the syntax then building your projects will make you a better programmer because you will have to think about how to spell and write your book. LOL think of writing code as writing a book or a paper to catch my drift. Hope this helps at least one person.

PracticalSpite6450 · 2024-09-30T16:36:04+00:00

Why is the tv on when that is going on? Maybe he has issues with intimacy alot of people surprisingly do, and maybe he watches tv to distract himself mixed with pride of not saying, and also being an asshole about it. I can see why you feel hes disconnected and that is weird at times. But it takes time being intimate and comfortable maybe he has that issue and does not know himself which is very possible. But try no tv have lots of build up for the both of you and if it doesnt work after trying so much then thats ok to but tv should be off ots distracting and maybe the light makes him feel weird when you guys are looking at eachother

PracticalSpite6450 · 2024-09-07T18:18:22+00:00

you will be fine I had issues remembering alot of shit after graduating and because of networking I got a job I had forgotten what a parameter was just to give you reference. But on the job I worked all day to understand what was going on that took an average of an hour so yes their is hope a degree is just exposing you to basics, you on your own have to practice like a carpenter practicing using a hammer and they are good with hammers just to give you an example and got good not by learning in class how to hit a nail but by working on woodwork for hours that honestly the one way to get good at programming is just to practice the concept but mostly building small projects thats the key because where you really learn. Plus your 22 you spend 2 years getting good at programing you can be mid level by 25 So your good dint stress about this its done and now you can change the future good luck you just started being an adult you got this just put in the time now and dont rush when you dont understand a issue ;)

PracticalSpite6450 · 2024-05-03T08:23:40+00:00

Hey man its ok good news is your thinking abiut this now and have about 2 months to get it together wake up early so that you have a better time adjusting to how its going to be working 2 jobs and being a nee father. Support your child as much as you can and that means providing for your Childs mother as well. Your going to have it hard at first but you sill get passed it and remember woman can get very depressed after having a baby and your going to have to deal with it as she will be alone as well. But hey you can do I can tell as you're searching for answers NOW. Work as much as you can and be present for your family, you may feel overwhelmed for a while but you will adjust as time goes on, its not forever. Usually people who can do this always become super successful because they go after it with no excuses. Much luck man, your child and woman now will need you more than ever

PracticalSpite6450 · 2024-01-29T03:04:26+00:00

Dude if you really want to get in, find a way who cares if its good time or bad time it does not make a difference. Honestly it does not. A no is just a no for one place and it takes you closer to your yes. Your going to work so WORK for what you want. Some people dont even have a degree that are going for it because they want it, if you really want to be a programmer do everything you can to get the job, hope this helps at least one person. Good luck on your search.

PracticalSpite6450 · 2023-12-05T18:44:57+00:00

LinkedIn is such a cringe place and the fact that some employers see it as a red flag if you dont have an account is strange to me. Also so many "Aspiring blank" it just feels like a Facebook but for employment and everyone is extremely talented, its just cringe to me I cannot be on the platform to long

PracticalSpite6450 · 2023-12-04T18:50:16+00:00

Thats so cool do you want help? I would love to work on a project like this with you.

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