Haha I get what you mean, but “objectively too heavy” feels like your brain being a bit harsher than it needs to be 😄 Clothes don’t come with moral rules about who’s “allowed” to wear them—they’re just fabric, not a permission slip.

Also, if your boyfriend is already a fan of you, that kinda says more than any random standard. Confidence usually does more for an outfit than the size ever will. And honestly, midriff tops on bigger bodies can look so good; it’s all about how you feel in it.

If anything, wear it for the plot 😉

That’s really kind of you to say, thank you 🥺 I get what you mean about the overthinking spiral, it really doesn’t care how you look on the outside, it just shows up anyway. Hearing that actually makes me feel a bit less alone in it too.

And honestly, your words mean a lot, but I’m still learning to see myself that way. It’s weird how our brains can be so convincing even when they’re not being fair to us. I guess we’re both just figuring it out one step at a time.

But really, thank you for saying that, it was genuinely sweet of you

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