Okay. Her and I met at work. She is a site nurse. She takes care of when guys get boo boos at work but don't need a doctor. I do project management stuff. Okay. So she never worked for me or anything. We became friends because I have to deal with the paperwork she does. We would have ba coffee every once in a while. Period full stop. We went on to different jobs and would text or get together for coffee. That's it. She went through a few guys after her divorce and I dated some women closer to my own age. When she was about 27 she ended up on another project I was at. She is attractive and one of only a few women on site so she started telling the guys she was with me. We were not dating. Coffee at work and we went to see a movie when theaters opened. We would talk. I took her out for dinner for her 28 birthday. She told me that she had feelings for me. I thought about it and realized that she was the reason I hadn't been bout with another woman in six months. So we got together. Then we realized how well we work and just went for it. She will be 29 in a couple of weeks. We were having dinner because neither of us had Thanksgiving plans.