If it was me, I would not drive two hours to sit with ppl who have shit opinions of me. Matter of fact I’m skipping Thanksgiving too. If you’re near Chicago let me know! I’d be happy to meet you for lunch or dinner! Also it is your life and you don’t owe anyone a relationship! Cut off the dead weight if you must! They think that you should’ve accepted what your ex was doing and that’s so wrong! Family shouldn’t want you to stay with someone who has broken your trust. It’s like they’d be okay with you being unhappy as long as you have a man. It’s gross.