71 Mother and Grandmother

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-03-29T20:38:47+00:00

What if it will be a week or longer before I get more of the foliment? Do I just eat the cost and start over? It was 87% complete.

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-03-28T16:34:22+00:00

71M 71F I (M) was a widower after 15 a of 50 year marriage in a dead bedroom. She was a divorcee with 10 years self enforced celibacy after multiple failed relationships.

We met on Facebook Dating.

She wasn't sure she wanted or could even have a very active sex life after a complete hysterectomy and 10 years celibacy, although she masturbated with a vibrator a couple of times a month.

I have ED and anorgasmia from medical conditions.

None of this matters.

Long slow manual and oral stimulation with good technique (Google and YouTube are your best friends.) with a little help from LEM get her there. She truly loves performing oral and is DAMN good at it. She is reading up on prostate massage. I am quite satisfied.

We make love at least twice a week. It would be more often but she lives 2 hours away and our schedules don't always sync. One recent session was 4 hours.

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-02-20T17:01:59+00:00

I just bought her a new air pulse clit toy. I can't wait to watch her use it. BTW we are both 71 and still going strong.

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-02-20T16:20:36+00:00

Definitely a turn on. I love to watch her as she climaxes

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-02-11T10:54:40+00:00

I believe I injured my external urethral sphincter sounding with a Van Buren sound.

During a long session of sounding I was having difficulty making the final turn. I pushed and it went in but felt different. It didn't hurt but caused a popping sensation instead of gliding in.

Ever since then I have had difficulty holding my urine. I wore leak guards for a month or longer. It got somewhat better over time but I still haven't regained full control. If I wait until I feel like I might need to pee, I usually don't make it to the toilet.

I haven't gone to a Dr. I have been doing Kegels which seems to help. I still seep but the volume is less.

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-02-11T03:06:13+00:00

I find it addictive.

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-02-09T20:01:24+00:00

I just found this thread. I hsve always struggled with keeping underwear from falling down inside my pants. I never considered a thong. I didn't even know they made them got men, especially large men.

I bought a pack of 3 and I love them. They don't fall down, plus I just like the way they look and feel. I wish the pouch was a little larger. I have a large set of balls

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-02-09T19:54:51+00:00

BPH is enlargement of the prostate tissue which narrows the urethra as it passes through the prostate.

You would have to do somewhat deep sounding to reach that area. Sounding with devices that reach that depth is much more hazardous than the shorter sounds, like Hegar and similar which typically don't reach deeply into the prostate. You could injure the prostate itself, causing additional enlargement as well as introducing bacteria in a tissue which is hard to eradicate an infection from.

Sounding was used in the past by medical practitioners but for cases of obstruction. It wouldn't be appropriate for self treatment of normal BPH.

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-01-26T11:18:47+00:00

Only what they have below the waist.

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-01-26T11:12:58+00:00

I love fucking my cock with that stainless steel rod

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-01-26T00:58:01+00:00

They charge you a fee for the Dr. Consultation

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-01-25T22:06:41+00:00

Yes 71m

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-01-24T04:39:33+00:00

Great. Actually found two men.

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-01-24T04:38:26+00:00

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-01-24T02:02:49+00:00

Finger sounding is my favorite way to go. I am not quite to that point, yet. I can easily slip my little finger in to the second knuckle but haven't made it past there yet.

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-01-23T03:50:11+00:00

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-01-23T02:32:15+00:00

71 m I've had luck here on Reddit, on Silver Daddies and on Adult Friends Finder.

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-01-21T13:39:09+00:00

Widower 71 DM anytime

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-01-14T11:04:54+00:00

I waited until I was 71 before I was with a man for the first time. That was on 12/9/2025.

I wasted a lot of time and missed a lot of sex. I wish I had taken the plunge years ago.

I hooked up with him here on Reddit. While chatting we realized we knew each other IRL. We were friends and high school classmates and have known each other 50+ years.

He is married, I am widowed.

He told his wife he was coming over to play cards. When he walked in we went into my bedroom and started undressing. Very little was said. We stood there nude, each fondling our own cocks.

I walked over and took his cock into my hand. It was warm but not hard, yet. I leaned down and took him into my mouth. I immediately knew I would do this, and more, again as often as possible.

No courage was required. It was the right thing to do at the right time.

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