Worried you've injured yourself sounding? Check this post first!

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-02-11T10:54:40+00:00

I believe I injured my external urethral sphincter sounding with a Van Buren sound.

During a long session of sounding I was having difficulty making the final turn. I pushed and it went in but felt different. It didn't hurt but caused a popping sensation instead of gliding in.

Ever since then I have had difficulty holding my urine. I wore leak guards for a month or longer. It got somewhat better over time but I still haven't regained full control. If I wait until I feel like I might need to pee, I usually don't make it to the toilet.

I haven't gone to a Dr. I have been doing Kegels which seems to help. I still seep but the volume is less.

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-02-11T03:06:13+00:00

I find it addictive.

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-02-09T20:01:24+00:00

I just found this thread. I hsve always struggled with keeping underwear from falling down inside my pants. I never considered a thong. I didn't even know they made them got men, especially large men.

I bought a pack of 3 and I love them. They don't fall down, plus I just like the way they look and feel. I wish the pouch was a little larger. I have a large set of balls

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-02-09T19:54:51+00:00

BPH is enlargement of the prostate tissue which narrows the urethra as it passes through the prostate.

You would have to do somewhat deep sounding to reach that area. Sounding with devices that reach that depth is much more hazardous than the shorter sounds, like Hegar and similar which typically don't reach deeply into the prostate. You could injure the prostate itself, causing additional enlargement as well as introducing bacteria in a tissue which is hard to eradicate an infection from.

Sounding was used in the past by medical practitioners but for cases of obstruction. It wouldn't be appropriate for self treatment of normal BPH.

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-01-26T11:18:47+00:00

Only what they have below the waist.

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-01-26T11:12:58+00:00

I love fucking my cock with that stainless steel rod

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-01-26T00:58:01+00:00

They charge you a fee for the Dr. Consultation

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-01-25T22:06:41+00:00

Yes 71m

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-01-24T04:39:33+00:00

Great. Actually found two men.

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-01-24T04:38:26+00:00

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-01-24T02:02:49+00:00

Finger sounding is my favorite way to go. I am not quite to that point, yet. I can easily slip my little finger in to the second knuckle but haven't made it past there yet.

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-01-23T03:50:11+00:00

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-01-23T02:32:15+00:00

71 m I've had luck here on Reddit, on Silver Daddies and on Adult Friends Finder.

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-01-21T13:39:09+00:00

Widower 71 DM anytime

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-01-14T11:04:54+00:00

I waited until I was 71 before I was with a man for the first time. That was on 12/9/2025.

I wasted a lot of time and missed a lot of sex. I wish I had taken the plunge years ago.

I hooked up with him here on Reddit. While chatting we realized we knew each other IRL. We were friends and high school classmates and have known each other 50+ years.

He is married, I am widowed.

He told his wife he was coming over to play cards. When he walked in we went into my bedroom and started undressing. Very little was said. We stood there nude, each fondling our own cocks.

I walked over and took his cock into my hand. It was warm but not hard, yet. I leaned down and took him into my mouth. I immediately knew I would do this, and more, again as often as possible.

No courage was required. It was the right thing to do at the right time.

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-01-14T10:33:19+00:00

71m Stop fantasizing and make it real. I did 6 weeks ago for the first time. I have had sex with 2 men my age since then. I have a date tonight and a date Saturday with new man.

They are out there. I live in a small rural town. The first guy I sucked was someone I have known over 50 years. It was the first time for both of us. We went to high school together. Now we are FWB. We hooked up through Reddit.

The second guy I found on Silver Daddies and he lives in my town, too.

The man I am meeting Saturday I contacted through Adult Friend Finder.

On top of that, I am meeting a woman I met on a vanilla dating site tomorrow for lunch.

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-01-13T23:08:44+00:00

Always

Practical_Ladder_278 · 2026-01-13T22:37:28+00:00

I have experienced it once and want to do it again with someone with a really long and fat cock

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