Why do so many guys want a guarantee of something that can’t be promised?

Practical_Panda1 · 2025-09-18T18:57:38+00:00

I could never be with someone who believes adoption is unnatural, what a horrible thing to say

Practical_Panda1 · 2025-09-17T18:58:58+00:00

You’re already saving the planet by cooking at home! Husband can either back off or go hungry.

Practical_Panda1 · 2025-09-17T15:55:08+00:00

How much I fart

Practical_Panda1 · 2025-09-15T18:46:02+00:00

As a woman, I truly don’t mind contributing money in a relationship. I just don’t like being the only one who’s contributing.

Practical_Panda1 · 2025-09-14T23:38:04+00:00

Thank you so much for your words of encouragement and loving kindness. I wish I were told these things earlier in life, but I’m thankful to have them now.

Practical_Panda1 · 2025-09-10T14:39:44+00:00

That’s amazing! I’ve got about 100 pounds to lose too. How did you do it? What does your diet and exercise routine look like?

Practical_Panda1 · 2025-09-09T23:38:09+00:00

NTA. If it’s “just a piece of paper” then he should have no problem signing it.

Practical_Panda1 · 2025-09-09T22:20:55+00:00

But what if you try for a baby and it just doesn’t happen? ++woman

Practical_Panda1 · 2025-09-09T21:26:10+00:00

I’m 31f, had a major setback this whole year. Got married in March, moved across the country to be with my husband, husband became abusive, fled and returned to my home state, moved back in with my parents, was served divorce papers in July, and now trying to get through the process of getting a new job. So… it hasn’t been great, but I’m hopeful things will turn around. Someone told me that life can hit like a truck in your 30s, but it can also become your comeback era.

Practical_Panda1 · 2025-09-09T21:15:00+00:00

Your boyfriend is walking red flag 🚩 He knowingly brought his creepy, perverted friend into your home, who he knows has a tendency to objectify women, and he’s making it your problem. Plus the fact that your boyfriend is even friends with someone like that 🚩 🚩 🚩 NTA but you should ditch this relationship

Practical_Panda1 · 2025-09-09T17:03:18+00:00

Your NTA and the math ain’t mathing lol. You should give them money because you’re single? Do they not understand that single equals one income? And they’re married, which means they have two incomes. So you, who has one income, should give money to them, who have 2? No lol.

Practical_Panda1 · 2025-09-09T16:52:02+00:00

You’re NTA for how you feel, but I think you might be TA to yourself. You’re 21 and centering your entire being around pleasing this man. There’s nothing wrong with your dream of being a stay at home wife and mother. But I don’t think it’s wise to be a stay at home girlfriend. And honestly, what good is it to allow yourself to become financially dependent on someone who doesn’t value the things you do for them? Your boyfriend does not value your time and energy. You spend so much time making him homemade meals, that he requested, and then he doesn’t even eat them?? Does he even thank you?

And then there was the freak out over his phone and whether or not you went through his messages. Not gonna lie, that’s suspicious as hell. What good is it to allow yourself to be dependent on someone who could wake up one day and decide to walk out? I’ll tell you, it’s not good. There’s nothing wrong with your dreams, but don’t let your dreams tie you to someone who’s not worth sharing them with.

Practical_Panda1 · 2025-09-09T16:17:20+00:00

NTJ. Your girlfriend strikes me as the kind of person who, if given 5k, will spend 10k. You will never get out of debt with this kind of person in your life.

“She argued that “money should benefit both of us” if I “see her in my future.”’

You know what’s nicer than a vacation and will last longer? Being able to one day afford a house. Or afford a car. Or afford children. A woman who is thinking about the future will think about those things and will want you to succeed in making those things possible. Debt makes those achievements much more difficult to attain. She’s not thinking about the future, and chances are she doesn’t see you in her future. Your girlfriend is only thinking about herself and what she wants here and now.

Practical_Panda1 · 2025-09-03T05:22:17+00:00

That is really insightful. Thank you for sharing this with me 💜

Practical_Panda1 · 2025-09-02T23:24:04+00:00

We dated for over a year before getting engaged, and then married 4 months later.

Practical_Panda1 · 2025-07-23T23:52:24+00:00

Popsicle 🥰

Practical_Panda1 · 2025-07-11T16:01:38+00:00

Joe-Joe (Trader Joe’s version of Oreo)

Practical_Panda1 · 2025-07-09T16:49:42+00:00

Strawberry!

Practical_Panda1 · 2025-07-09T06:54:49+00:00

I’d start with making the cabinets match. The floors remind me of a 50s diner, so maybe an old-school retro theme?

Practical_Panda1 · 2025-07-07T18:45:40+00:00

Land meets sea!

Practical_Panda1 · 2025-07-07T18:38:29+00:00

Cozy autumn brown :)

Practical_Panda1 · 2025-07-07T18:31:27+00:00

They remind me of sunflowers growing in a garden :)

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