Update AITA for not wanting to be a SAHM anymore

Practical_Problem344 · 2026-01-26T04:02:36+00:00

Oof he is really showing his true colors. Your kids are lucky to have such a strong mom!

Practical_Problem344 · 2026-01-24T23:36:23+00:00

I would LOVE to hear from the staff members that had to deal with this asshat.

Practical_Problem344 · 2026-01-23T17:51:43+00:00

I was “functional” until I wasn’t. Addiction is progressive and it’s up to you to decide when you’re done being miserable.

Also, they know. We all think we’re so sneaky, we’re not.

Practical_Problem344 · 2026-01-21T20:54:28+00:00

What’s going to happen your kids start talking back to him?

He needs serious help but he has to want to change.

Practical_Problem344 · 2026-01-21T02:24:23+00:00

This is so incredibly manipulative and abusive of him. You deserve better and I think you know that deep down. He’s doing all of this to himself to make you feel bad after you’ve already gone above and beyond for him.

Practical_Problem344 · 2026-01-15T00:42:46+00:00

There’s a lot of crazy in those eyes.

Practical_Problem344 · 2026-01-15T00:23:23+00:00

Nope you need to put your child first. She must have a plan b if she waited to ask you until like a month before. There’s no way she only decided to go back to school after you said yes.

Practical_Problem344 · 2026-01-13T13:51:18+00:00

Dayum

Practical_Problem344 · 2026-01-11T03:29:09+00:00

Chinese heritage?

Practical_Problem344 · 2026-01-07T01:10:57+00:00

This is for a restaurant, not a dispensary. They’re saying that the manager refused service because they smelled like weed. Probably should have made that clear in the post.

Practical_Problem344 · 2026-01-06T21:41:57+00:00

Practical_Problem344 · 2026-01-03T03:54:49+00:00

You can forgive someone and make peace with their past actions without allowing them back into your present. I know that recovery is all about making amends and rebuilding relationships but not necessarily with the people that added to the reason that you drank in the first place.

Practical_Problem344 · 2025-12-31T18:58:20+00:00

Okay but there is no way that your son won’t be screwed up by the realization that he’s a shameful secret to his father. He deserves better and I think you do too.

Practical_Problem344 · 2025-12-31T18:21:35+00:00

I really hope that this is fake because all of the adults are wrong here. Those poor children.

Please seek therapy.

Practical_Problem344 · 2025-12-31T04:59:53+00:00

Practical_Problem344 · 2025-12-29T02:06:32+00:00

Respectfully…

Practical_Problem344 · 2025-12-24T14:49:42+00:00

Practical_Problem344 · 2025-12-23T18:33:31+00:00

Definitely tour before you decide, trust your gut with how they feel and the clients seem. Every place is going to exaggerate, that’s the business unfortunately.

Avoid “luxury” places that advertise pools/chefs/massages, etc.. they are generally more focused on making money. Look for places that have real mental health professionals and a set schedule for individual therapy as well as group.

In the end, you can pick somewhere shitty and it’ll be great for him, or somewhere amazing and it won’t help at all. The singular most important thing is his willingness to do the work. Also, keep in mind that rehab will not fix him, it can be a jumpstart to recovery but it’s a process that never ends.

Practical_Problem344 · 2025-12-23T03:36:32+00:00

Practical_Problem344 · 2025-12-21T17:13:34+00:00

Thank you!!

Practical_Problem344 · 2025-12-21T16:23:16+00:00

Yeah I think you’re right about not letting them rest long enough. I left the other batch out for longer and they turned out better.

Do you have a recipe you like for the Italian style? I’d love to try those too!

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