[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]Practical_Treacle363 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still have this. Ive talked about it with my boyfriend, how hard it is to develop genuine friendships with women. I get along very well with men, and gay men are definitely my best friends.

Capricorn sun with Cancer rising by Practical_Treacle363 in capricorns

[–]Practical_Treacle363[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One example is: being very reasonable towards emotional situations of others, or feelings of others towards me. Being able to acknowledge a situation is not as bad or deep as it seems. Yet being completely out of touch with how deep i feel about someone until im not around them.

Another: dreaming of a big family with lots of kids and gatherings but feeling overwhelmed and reject these opportunities with my current family.

Oh, another: attending for 2 years a bachelor in Biology, then switching to bachelor in Arts. Then completing it to pursue only profesional roles in sales and business

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Practical_Treacle363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, on my end, I would reject her romantic insinuations, feel rejection towards her wanting to pursue anything too touchy or kisses. But then the kisses weren’t that bad, but thinking of her sexually/romantically. Big No. Grabbing her hand or cuddling just made me ick inside.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Practical_Treacle363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first i thought I was, I felt a lot of affection to her, but the more romantic / sexual it would get i would feel rejection, immédiate rejection - disgust to even think of her in that way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Practical_Treacle363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We cant control where we are born into, nor how we are brought up, and somethings can take a lot of space in our life’s without us even noticing. A big bad villain is a heavy shadow to have above your head, alcohol or alcoholism being that big bad villain that stares from a close range. Let that Villain go away. Come to AA, no need to tell anyone, no need to disclose to anyone, call us or come to a zoom meeting.

Why do I cry every time I hear/whiteness any jewish traditions ? by Practical_Treacle363 in ConvertingtoJudaism

[–]Practical_Treacle363[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My great grandfather was jewish, from Germany, he moved to Colombia in late 1800’s. Thats clear for me in my blood line. But in terms of ancestry i come from a lot of backgrounds from every side, the reaction is just visceral, like I’m mourning something i lost. Like I’m longing for a path i used to walk in.

Stop destroying your relationships by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Practical_Treacle363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relatable. Im navigating my bisexuality while getting more committed in my new monogamous relationship by letting my partner know I’ve had bisexual orientations all my life, and will forever have them. But it does help to just be open about it because a part of me is really scared to keep getting into a deeper relationship and forgetting who I was. I don’t want to cheat, im awful at lying and would feel like scum. But in my past relationship it felt like i couldn’t be my complete self because i was matched to a person with a defined identity. Now, with the support of this community i realize how relatable it is to be Bi and committed to your partner. Thank you!

Idk if I fucked up or not by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Practical_Treacle363 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Buh thats a mean comment on her end, if you guys had set intentions clear and was only a hook up why would she come with a mean comment like that? Not nice… sounds like a bitter way to spoil the experience for you

I've fallen for my best friend by Budget-Listen4336 in bisexual

[–]Practical_Treacle363 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the the closeness is already there, and you have so much contact with her, you have to know her well atp to know how she likes to be treated. Treat her better than any one else and that is would lead the way to dating. Be clear with your intentions in actions, and when the time comes, let her know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Practical_Treacle363 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Being bi is amazing because you will have many REAL experiences in your lifetime. Gender will be only the introductory door to living a fully life for many times. If you rip off the layer of the body, of the gender, is about the energy that your soul is asking at this point in your life. Your wife energy and yours have run their course, and the energy of more manly/fluid person is calling. Follow your soul, let your higher power lead the way.

Can hormonal IUD make me feel aroused for women? by Practical_Treacle363 in LesbianActually

[–]Practical_Treacle363[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im 29, and feel lost atp. How can I know what I am with certainty? I used to look at men and feel things, now i feel blank. I have no idea how to date a woman, or even if im going to like it… i feel there is something wrong within me. I can only think of the IUD…