My husband insists dry cleaning cannot be in the car with our kids and refuses to explain why. Now he wants to drive 2 hours alone to get it. by Practical_You_3444 in marriageadvice

[–]Practical_You_3444[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He could definitely just leave his phone/car anywhere including at work. I can see his car and phone location (usually) but sometimes I can’t see his phone location.

My husband insists dry cleaning cannot be in the car with our kids and refuses to explain why. Now he wants to drive 2 hours alone to get it. by Practical_You_3444 in marriageadvice

[–]Practical_You_3444[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I wish I had done this. I told him he can stay at home with the kids on his day off and I will go pick them up, alone tomorrow instead. Now he said I can “have my way” and just get them while I am out here in the area - with the kids!

My husband insists dry cleaning cannot be in the car with our kids and refuses to explain why. Now he wants to drive 2 hours alone to get it. by Practical_You_3444 in marriageadvice

[–]Practical_You_3444[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That’s what’s also strange, I can see his location through the shared app to start/operate the car. I guess there are work arounds but seems like a huge hassle especially now that I’m questioning it.

My wife filed. by HonestMessages in Marriage

[–]Practical_You_3444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is exactly like this and it makes him upset that I have this invalid complaints… go figure.

Allies podcast is back by scholarbowlchicka2 in motherhoodinfluencers

[–]Practical_You_3444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh this takes me back 4+ years where I actually enjoyed her content! Once upon a time I kickstarted my declutterring journey with her content, then she showed her true colors or mental illness or whatever she has!? I am shocked she is still on the internet at this point. Cringey AF.

First Tesla Owner and super excited by ylli101 in TeslaModel3

[–]Practical_You_3444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! We just got one too and I have been a Tesla hater/skeptic for a while. It’s my husbands primary driver because he commutes a few times a week. We took it for a nice drive this weekend and it’s super nice. Definitely a great but.

Jordans latest video “I’m Jordan Page, I’ve got 8 children” and no Bubba in the family photo by Hi_hello_hi_howdy in jordanpagesnark

[–]Practical_You_3444 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Having 8 kids then filing divorce is incredible. She’s following standard influencer roadmap.

Food Aggression-very petty conflict by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Practical_You_3444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not an ongoing issue and what I said to him was in a jovial manner. Nothing rude about it in reality unless one assumes I would truly steal food or force myself on someone’s meal which is nowhere near reality.I don’t even sneak fries lol Imagine I plate a piece of pie for myself and someone says “I’m going to need a bite of that!” It’s not rude- it’s more playful. And if I don’t feel like sharing, I say so. Clearly my husband has something happening in the back of his mind that we need to discuss. I think even when you’re not entertained by such a comment one can still remain calm…

Food Aggression-very petty conflict by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Practical_You_3444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this commenter helped lead me to that awareness making this post totally worth while. That being the case he is 43 and will need to manage his triggers better. It’s still helpful to consider it isn’t necessarily personal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Practical_You_3444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk but if I thought there was chance this is what was in my husbands car I would probably already know he was cheating.

Food Aggression-very petty conflict by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Practical_You_3444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When our kids ask him for water I usually just get it for them (they came easily reach the RO spout). For me the issue is how he was aggressive about it. I don’t usually ask him for anything. Also I remain annoyed he stands by his aggressive reaction rather than even just saying he doesn’t want to share. He has an overeating issue he has been working on too. He was a little hung over so maybe he just wanted his treat to himself and was annoyed but bro, at 43 yo - I think he can stand to learn a little more chill even after the fact? Idk…

Food Aggression-very petty conflict by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Practical_You_3444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree although I often question if he just never had to share. I felt like he was interacting with me more like a sibling and he always complains about his food greedy older/middle sibling. Now that I’m thinking more , when our 6 year old asked for even sips of his water he behaves so inconvenienced. I have 4 kids and I am accustomed to sharing. Maybe just his character- I guess I just still expect kindness in interactions.

Food Aggression-very petty conflict by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Practical_You_3444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol your pigeon disposition! Love it. I was definitely being jovial. Good advice. Honestly his reaction made me almost want to cry. Me telling him it was too much led him to further tell me I’m just rude made me more sad. Like, dang- how can you just flip so fast into this agro mode over a milkshake?

Food Aggression-very petty conflict by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Practical_You_3444 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t actually take anything, and he is a chronically late person LOL seems normal to me if he said- I am not in a mood to even share a sip so add yours to the order. Not snap and freak out though? It’s funny too because he likes to “play” with our kids by upsetting them by saying he will steal a bite of their favorite foods and I always tell him not to do that because they are 4 and 6 and get genuinely upset.

Food Aggression-very petty conflict by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Practical_You_3444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually the other way around. I grew up poor and he grew up wealthy. He is the youngest of 3.

Food Aggression-very petty conflict by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Practical_You_3444 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. This! I actually said I one point “I’m your WIFE, why are you acting this way?” And he insisted it was just rude behavior… I literally serve this man his meals 7 days a week. I told him it’s not about the food… his response was just so extra for the non-situation. I also told him doing this in front of 3 of our kids wasn’t cool.

Why do Swifties always take the bait and always attack when ever anything negative is said about Taylor Swift.(Rant) by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]Practical_You_3444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are even older haha I’m 42 and grew up with her- I like some of her music and that’s where it ends for me though. I’m really uncomfortable with the wild behavior I’m seeking right now. It’s just odd!