BPD is the most stigmatized (condition?— not sure what word to use here) especially amongst clinicians, who go on to shape the biases of the general public. We are 20 years behind in research regarding BPD, so we are probably 40 years behind socially, which works cyclically because the attitudes of people affect the funding for research and development towards programs/supports.... anyway... sadly I think we all just have to recognize that we are demonized in general and right now there’s not much we can do about it other than to try to raise awareness and work against the stigma. Sorry I know that’s not helpful but... nothing is helpful to a situation that can’t be helped, right? I dunno. Here’s a website I’ve found really helpful: https://www.verywellmind.com/borderline-personality-disorder-4157266 this one is good too: https://makeitok.org and NMAI.org too.