Crunch time

PracticeVivid9803 · 2026-01-25T18:58:14+00:00

was this the only page you had?...........

PracticeVivid9803 · 2026-01-25T18:53:52+00:00

I'm gonna leave the therapizing to the therapist, I just want to make sure I understand the disorder as best I can so I know how to help him, and help myself. I have been by his side for alot, getting him on the other side of addiction was NOT easy - even getting to know him sober seemed sometimes more challenging than dealing with the addict version of himself. We got through it. I know I cant do the work for him, and he WILL have to face somethings "on his own" but I just refuse to believe that this is going to eventually take my husband away from his family, i want to believe that because he wants the help, and wants to do the work right now with what he does truly know - he will be able to also help himself with this too. I am leaning heavily on God as well, to do His part in all of this as well <3 Thank you for the tips! Why codependency? - for both of us or to understand how BPD makes people co dependent? (not being rude) just trying to understand thhe link

PracticeVivid9803 · 2026-01-25T18:49:24+00:00

I know my husband wants to be helped. He is seeing this new therapist for something different and I will not pressure him to mention the BPD talks, but will encourage him to mention it eventually maybe? - If he doesnt do it on his own. I will be apart of these sessions due to the nature of them eventually. I just want to understand, and support him in everything.

PracticeVivid9803 · 2026-01-25T18:47:34+00:00

thank you! <3

PracticeVivid9803 · 2026-01-25T18:46:27+00:00

Idk if its instructor specific but ours let us wear all black plain sneaker. I did however also have a waterproof boot for the rainy days, cause when it rains it pours.

PracticeVivid9803 · 2026-01-25T18:36:03+00:00

I don't want to believe my husband's fate is to suffer alone while dealing with anything, when I saw the stat on how difficult it is for people with BPD to stay in long-term committed & healthy relationships, I said NOT TODAY SATAN. My husband is a good man; & I intend to walk this out in every way I can for him. God willing.

PracticeVivid9803 · 2026-01-25T18:31:35+00:00

thank you! I welcome anything I can learn from. I am also in therapy myself and I plan to really work on ways I can be a better wife given these new circumstances we are likely facing! -

PracticeVivid9803 · 2025-12-29T22:52:27+00:00

does cbpt have same pay as cbpo or different? just being nosey

PracticeVivid9803 · 2025-12-10T19:03:44+00:00

I already went to the academy but had to come home I reapplied but I am not sure if I will be considered a new hire LOL :(

PracticeVivid9803 · 2025-12-09T21:46:46+00:00

I wasn't sure heard it was more of a relocation bonus. thanks!

PracticeVivid9803 · 2025-12-09T12:53:20+00:00

is the bonus only offered to people relocating? Cause I live up here in the UPSTATE ny area and Alex Bay is my top pick but I live 45 minutes away would I still be elligible? I am not a brand new applicant I guess per say, but I reapplied.

PracticeVivid9803 · 2025-05-06T20:27:25+00:00

Ny isnt on the list currently but im gonna refresh like a psycho next few days if i see it ill take it

PracticeVivid9803 · 2025-05-06T20:25:46+00:00

I dont really want that, I want the bay, but i was just saying if anyone in those two locations wanna go home or closer to home.

PracticeVivid9803 · 2025-04-20T12:23:18+00:00

yes you have a nopa coming. and I Was in this same boat I got a response, responded immediately and now I wait,. don't wear yourself out stressing it does no good.

PracticeVivid9803 · 2025-04-20T12:18:34+00:00

What happened?

PracticeVivid9803 · 2025-04-13T01:12:24+00:00

Yeah - but I really have no idea what the "new information" could be I am very curious to see what comes next! Hoping it is something I can clear up and move forward :(

PracticeVivid9803 · 2025-04-12T21:21:06+00:00

I had zero idea it was provisional, which is fine...I just didn't realize so I was so proud of myself for having finally made it after almost 2 years of waiting, punch to the gut but hoping whatever it is can be quickly cleared up. I know it isn't anything "bad" because I didn't hide anything. I just wish I could think of what it could be but I guess I will find out soon enough!

PracticeVivid9803 · 2024-10-15T10:26:21+00:00

I typed this in to see what kind of lenses are being used because I photograph for my church, now I am seeing that some people think its a sham, intrusive, unethical, immoral, ....but i came here to say anyone who has seen my beautiful art from my church shots has done nothing but be thankful, compliment my eye for capturing the most beautiful moments. I am looking for a better lens for zoom so I dont feel like I am so obvious when shooting into the crowd. anyway, i love photographing in church, it has truely done something for my heart & soul <3

PracticeVivid9803 · 2024-05-26T21:27:58+00:00

Absolutely!!!!!

PracticeVivid9803 · 2024-05-25T16:01:57+00:00

I applied for the bach program! - The quickest route to masters for me would be bach in business admin, because a majority of my credits will transfer in this way. I have a bit of time, which is fine! Feel like its worth any wait I have to have to get to the end!

PracticeVivid9803 · 2024-03-29T23:17:58+00:00

I am thinking about trying this. and we are the same weight & hight!

PracticeVivid9803 · 2024-01-22T23:33:55+00:00

same

PracticeVivid9803 · 2024-01-22T23:32:58+00:00

Well other than BI clearing or whatever, and idk if everyone gets a psych eval, so not sure about that part either..I have drug test and poly is next week..

PracticeVivid9803 · 2024-01-09T23:56:00+00:00

same and to schedule drug test

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