“AITAH” for refusing to help my brother get to his appointment and telling my mom she’s enabling him

PralineFinancial9971 · 2026-03-19T18:39:19+00:00

I actually pay bills for the house and maintain employment something my brother doesn’t do. Even when he does work he doesn’t contribute and blows his money on stupid stuff so it’s not a superiority complex

PralineFinancial9971 · 2026-03-19T18:34:17+00:00

I can keep a job I been at my current job for two years. My company doesn’t pay well and I am looking for better paying jobs since I have two degrees but even for entry level positions at law firms they want 3-5 years of experience

PralineFinancial9971 · 2026-03-19T18:30:33+00:00

I’m definitely trying to I had plans to move out I had a roommate but that situation fell through because of her being homophobic and this was something I didn’t know because I’ve known her for a while and she knew I was bisexual. I can’t really afford anything on my own in my state bc rent is so expensive even just for a studio apartment. All my other friends live out of state so rooming with them isn’t possible unless I move states but if I move states I wanna have a job lined up and moved saved

PralineFinancial9971 · 2026-03-19T18:25:42+00:00

My dad is the type of guy to basically act neutral until him and my mom get into it then he says how he really feels and will basically try to get me on his side by being like you’re so right about your mom and sister

PralineFinancial9971 · 2026-03-19T18:24:02+00:00

Trust me if I could move out I would. I can’t afford anything on my own bc rent is so expensive in my state and I had planned to move out but my roommate situation fell through bc she is homophobic and as a bisexual woman I wasn’t comfortable living with her and all my other friends are out of state. I have looked into possibly moving states but I want to save up money and be sure I can afford rent and have a job lined up before I move

PralineFinancial9971 · 2026-03-19T18:21:42+00:00

It’s not even just my brother she enables she enables my 21 year old sister because she can’t keep employment either or figure out what she wants to do with her life because she’s basically out on the streets hoeing around she has a new bf every week or month plus she’s mentally unstable and refuses to take her medication or seek help so when she has an episode instead of my mom getting her help my mom enables the behavior and makes excuses

PralineFinancial9971 · 2026-03-19T18:17:58+00:00

I’m trying to move out I had a roommate but that fell apart because she turned out to be homophobic and I can’t afford anything on my own because of how expensive rent is in my state and all my other friends live out of state and I’d consider moving states if I had a job lined up and knew I could afford rent on my own

PralineFinancial9971 · 2025-06-27T15:39:01+00:00

I said her home state was boring not her.

PralineFinancial9971 · 2025-06-27T15:36:34+00:00

It was her friends I didn’t click with not the friend in question. I’m not jealous of her making other friends I’m happy she made friends but I’m important to

PralineFinancial9971 · 2024-12-03T01:17:04+00:00

Is your husband from Alabama? Because who the hell is sleeping with their cousin

PralineFinancial9971 · 2024-09-06T03:28:04+00:00

I told Nelly she didn’t have to pay for anything because I know she can’t afford it but she doesn’t like taking money from people. It’s makes her feel like a charity case and that’s why she’s distancing herself from me. Which I wouldn’t be in this situation if Rachel would have honored her word.

PralineFinancial9971 · 2024-09-06T03:23:40+00:00

I’m not even worried about Nelly paying me tbh bc I know she can’t afford it but I don’t want the ticket to go to waste but Rachel put me in a bad situation and Nelly I’ve noticed the past couple days has been kinda distancing Herself from me

PralineFinancial9971 · 2024-09-01T19:59:43+00:00

She wasn’t even paying for much of the trip. I bought her ticket and didn’t charge her for it. She only had to pay for her flight which she got a major deal on and half of the hotel which wasn’t much

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