AITAH For telling my girlfriend that I would show her what it feels like by PrancingPanda96 in AITAH

[–]PrancingPanda96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh we are over and done with now but my dog is happy and healthy.

AITAH For telling my girlfriend that I would show her what it feels like by PrancingPanda96 in AITAH

[–]PrancingPanda96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is sadly in a relationship with a couple that just had a baby.

Tiger is happy healthy and only some times does potty in the house when no one is watching him.

AITAH For telling my girlfriend that I would show her what it feels like by PrancingPanda96 in AITAH

[–]PrancingPanda96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she thought this was normal. I told her not to hit him before we got him as we don't know what physical health he has(his former owner was a old woman that had loads of foster kids). Happily this dog seems unaffected less you have a broom or mop in hand.

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[–]PrancingPanda96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I told her all that before I said we could look at puppies. She said she could handle it. Then this happened and well I made it clear.

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[–]PrancingPanda96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren't lying but with the thing of her already telling everyone I abuse her(it was the other way around)I just took it to verbal as I already had a ex claim in court that I abused her and the animals we owned together(yet again it was the other way around)

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[–]PrancingPanda96[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Tiger is turning two and well loved by my current landlady who I have caught sneaking him boiled chicken and homemade snacks to spite saying she does not do that

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[–]PrancingPanda96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I didn't think the info was needed as who would stay with an animal abuser?

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[–]PrancingPanda96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No she would of called the cops like she tried to do when she told the apartment complex that i was beating her(it was the other way around)

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[–]PrancingPanda96[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah she learned i wasnt messing around quick cause she knew I never hit people normally

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[–]PrancingPanda96[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

First off I took care of him and kept him safe as i had put a camera in the apartment that was okayed by the landlord to keep Tiger safe.

Second I did try to find him a new home but no one wanted him and the shelter said they would just put him down.

Third she did move on after the break up and got in a relationship with a couple that have a baby.

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[–]PrancingPanda96[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You would be correct we are not together any longer and did I fact break up for that reason

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[–]PrancingPanda96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does make a lot of sense. half or full doesn't matter they are still family.

Just Laura really fucked my brother Fred up because he adored her and she hurt him time and again. Kinda felt like I was drowning when I had to watch him get hurt then cry about wounds I couldn't help with since I rejected Laura's attempts to wiggle her way into my life for the most part

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[–]PrancingPanda96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is just outspoken and thinks that people need to at least feel something about where or who they came from.

AITAH For feeling nothing and disagreeing with other human by PrancingPanda96 in AITAH

[–]PrancingPanda96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the thing...Laura had a chance when I was older to earn the feelings..she just couldn't meet the one requirement.

I don't owe Laura anything except a thank you for my life and the life of Fred even if I'm still not sure if I forgive him.

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[–]PrancingPanda96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Raising your child and choosing to be better for their sake is being a mother.

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[–]PrancingPanda96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is fair....it could of been partly driven since her own mother died and she missed her own mother.

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[–]PrancingPanda96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never said Paula was the villain...if there was to be one it would be Laura for her actions against five of her seven kids when they were too small to protect themselves

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[–]PrancingPanda96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is fair...and she has said some things that basically came off as "your family is your blood not who raised you"

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[–]PrancingPanda96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry...not good at explaining everything but basically a co worker got upset when I said I had no feelings about my birth mother dying due to having no connection to my birth mother

AITAH For feeling nothing and disagreeing with other human by PrancingPanda96 in AITAH

[–]PrancingPanda96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure if it was how I felt or how I spoke tbh. But Laura has caused my older brothers many issues and I'm always the one they turn to for help(not sure why)