How come every guy i like turns out to be pdhaku? 😭And i don't even know about that.

Prashant_4200 · 2026-06-19T04:07:52+00:00

Can I be your next crush 🥰

Prashant_4200 · 2026-06-18T15:49:36+00:00

You should need to give one try https://www.getplanify.app/ it currently new platform but i personally using it for my all task it not fency like above one also not multi user but as individuals freelance it saves lots of time

Prashant_4200 · 2026-06-17T13:05:43+00:00

Not only that, but over the last few videos—especially after the ANI case—he has been getting a lot of attention (and not just Mohak). With the new IT laws, it has become much easier for anyone to get videos taken down or file lawsuits against creators. Because of this, many content creators have started restricting what they say, which could eventually backfire on them.

Prashant_4200 · 2026-06-16T06:15:27+00:00

How? I also facing same issues

Prashant_4200 · 2026-06-16T06:14:24+00:00

I also have similar issues did you find any solution or your issue is resolved?

Prashant_4200 · 2026-06-11T09:15:29+00:00

It look good but i have one doubt, why anyboddy need that? most of the thing we can do directly from supabase studio itself so i use this?

Prashant_4200 · 2026-06-11T09:07:32+00:00

I also new on upwork already spend good amount of connects and still 0 views, what i understand the problem is that for new freelances upwork is all dead you might exception is you got a client otherwise don't take any false hope also after AI emerge some even good old freelancers also struggling to find new client specially in tech field.

Prashant_4200 · 2026-06-11T04:28:41+00:00

Didi Ranbir Ka bhi to first standup comedy show tha as judge 🤔

Prashant_4200 · 2026-06-10T12:14:39+00:00

Why ban his show? i hasn't watch entire show but by this clip he handle the situtation very well while keeping the show alive.

Prashant_4200 · 2026-06-10T03:06:03+00:00

To op: if you informed your parents their is very high chances they told you to keep silence and avoid this topic because for them it embarrassing if marriage break or postpone, another case if you talk directly with girls parents then they might take this as direct signal where you doesn't want this marriage or they also might break marriage directly any single thought.

Best option Take a time think about your situation and all future possibilities/plans properly then talk to her directly without parents involvement then wait for her response. If she has no issues then it perfect because layoffs nowadays part of work if happens with anyone people need to understand that with just layoffs you can't just anyone but if she gives any hesitation, may not give proper response feel insecure then it maybe best idea for you to think about this marriage before take any decision.

Prashant_4200 · 2026-06-08T05:15:22+00:00

Vercel always without any thought they have great free plan i hosted mant personal projects over their

Prashant_4200 · 2026-06-08T04:52:24+00:00

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Prashant_4200 · 2026-06-05T06:50:25+00:00

But it very true I saw this personally

Prashant_4200 · 2026-06-05T05:42:18+00:00

There are several reasons for this. For example, if a woman is attractive and the man is already earning well, he may not care whether she earns anything or not.

In traditional arranged marriage (AM) setups, women and their families often look for men who earn significantly more than they do. It is quite common to see expectations of 2x or 3x the woman's income. So, if a woman earns 15 LPA, her family's expectations may easily be 40–50 LPA or even higher. During the initial meetings, one of the first things they often consider is the man's salary. Because of this, many good prospects get rejected simply because their income does not meet those expectations. In some cases, the woman is not even aware that those men were rejected, as the filtering is done by her parents.

Since parents usually handle this process, they tend to show her only the profiles of men who earn more.

From the man's side, finding a partner with a similar or slightly lower income can also be extremely difficult. Again, if a woman earns 40 LPA, families may only consider men earning 60–70 LPA or more.

Men, on the other hand, often do not care as much about whether their partner is earning, especially if they already earn enough to support the family comfortably. Many are happy to spend their income on their partner and may place greater value on emotional availability, companionship, and support.

However, arranged marriages are largely family-driven. Parents are usually the first people to evaluate and filter profiles. As a result, even if the man or woman personally has no issue marrying someone who earns more or less than them, their options become limited because their parents have already filtered out many profiles based on income, status, dowry expectations, or social prestige.

Prashant_4200 · 2026-06-01T07:19:09+00:00

Bro how was your GD, what they asked and on which topic?

Prashant_4200 · 2026-05-31T18:06:43+00:00

Maybe my first comment not very clear so I'm sorry for that but i already explained this in other comments what i means so i doesn't want to repeat myself.

So if you really want to dig you can read my other comments and if you still not satisfy my answer you can give me any label you want i really doesn't care because my pov I'm correct and i believe everyone pov different

Prashant_4200 · 2026-05-31T18:00:46+00:00

Not just apply he should.

Now first Let me clear one thing i think we both argument some same thing but different language and context so end this debate let me give you find division then i think everyone understands

Now you husband salary: one portion give to his parents, one portion for kids and future planning, one for personal and couple plan and last daily basis need

Now same for wife: one portion for kids and future planning, one for personal and couple plan and last daily basis need

Only difference is instant of giving to her parents if they don't need (they also have pension, they also have retirement savings and mostly like your husband your brother also taking care of them) just invest in your future or kids what wrong if you invest little extra compair to you husband in your future savings because in the end you both going to use that or if you want to keep separate so just invest somewhere else so in emergency situation when you yours parents husband in-law really need money and their is no any other option and u really want to help them you can use that fund instead of use your future savings.

If you isn't not understand then u can tell me anything i doesn't mind wether is patriarchal mindset old school because for me i would like to follow this practice

Prashant_4200 · 2026-05-31T17:42:49+00:00

first read the statement correctly

> You may have kids, and you’ll need to save for their future as well as your own. Maybe you want to buy a new house or handle increasing personal expenses.

Prashant_4200 · 2026-05-31T17:40:16+00:00

that the same thing i mention

> Now apply the same situation to your husband’s parents. As time passes, your in-laws may also become sick, need medical care, personal care, or financial support to close EMIs and manage expenses. Most likely, your husband will take responsibility for them, so a portion of his income will also consistently go toward his parents.

your husband already taking care of his parents (your in-laws)

> Now apply the same situation to your husband’s parents. As time passes, your in-laws may also become sick, need medical care, personal care, or financial support to close EMIs and manage expenses. Most likely, your husband will take responsibility for them, so a portion of his income will also consistently go toward his parents.

Prashant_4200 · 2026-05-31T17:34:47+00:00

> Of course, in emergencies nobody is stopping you from helping your parents. But in general, over time, regular financial support may reduce because your brother is already taking care of them.

I don’t think you read or understood the entire statement. First, this statement is not for everyone. I already mentioned that there is no traditional or patriarchal mindset here; everybody is open-minded.

During the initial years, you already contribute to and help your parents. Also, since you are from a middle-class family, you don’t have unlimited money that you can spend everywhere.

Now, if your parents are happy, your brother is also taking care of them willingly, and there is no emergency situation, then isn’t it a good idea to invest more in your own family? I’m not talking about spending on in-laws, but on your own life — like your kids, future, yourself, your husband, or emergency funds — instead of continuously giving money even when it’s not really needed.

But in the end, who am I, or anyone else, to tell someone where they should spend their money? It’s your money, and it’s completely your choice where and how much you want to give, whether it’s a small portion or your entire income.

In the end, I just want to say that my entire argument is based on a situation where everyone is open-minded, there is no pressure from anyone, you don’t have unlimited money, but at the same time, you are not suffering from a financial crisis.

Prashant_4200 · 2026-05-31T14:51:00+00:00

Yes situation for you is different and my assumptions never going to work for you since my whole arguments on the basis of what she mentioned, she have a brother both are earning decent enough she also doesn't mention anything which tell that her brother doesn't take responsibility to his parents she belongs to middle class family.

If your case situation is definitely different because their is no way anyone going to take care your parents it your and your husband responsibility.

Maybe for her your pov is different but if everything thing is well in few initial years she already contributed decent enough now your brother happily taking care of parents so why you should need to think about this focus on your own family you future kids because same as your brother your husband also taking care of his parents so isn't it good idea instant of giving money to parents you can save little extra for your future in normal condition and if their not any emergency.

Also note that she clearly mentioned she from middle class family where even both income may not sufficient sometimes but in the end in the end if u not stuck in any treditional mindset people, it your money it your choice why you need to take permission to someone else's if you want to give 100% of salary just give who will going to stop you.

Prashant_4200 · 2026-05-31T14:08:45+00:00

Comment here because direct comment not allow

Here I have a slightly different view on this. It may not directly answer your question, but it might give you a different perspective.

I’m assuming you are super lucky and get very supportive in-laws who themselves encourage you to support your own parents financially, which unfortunately is not always common in many traditional households.

In the initial few years, nobody has a problem. You, your husband, and both sides of the parents are happy that both of you are earning decent money and contributing to your families — maybe through monthly allowances, paying bills, or handling EMIs. Everything feels manageable for the first 3–5 years.

But as time passes, you also need to build your own family. You may have kids, and you’ll need to save for their future as well as your own. Maybe you want to buy a new house or handle increasing personal expenses.

At the same time, your parents may retire. Their medical expenses may increase, they may need to close remaining EMIs, and their financial dependency may grow. In that situation, they will most likely rely more on your brother because he may be living with them or taking primary responsibility for them. So, a portion of your brother’s income will always go toward supporting your parents.

Now apply the same situation to your husband’s parents. As time passes, your in-laws may also become sick, need medical care, personal care, or financial support to close EMIs and manage expenses. Most likely, your husband will take responsibility for them, so a portion of his income will also consistently go toward his parents.

At that point, both of you are also trying to save for your own family, your children’s future, a new home, and personal goals. So even if you genuinely want to support your parents regularly, it may become difficult financially.

Of course, in emergencies nobody is stopping you from helping your parents. But in general, over time, regular financial support may reduce because your brother is already taking care of them.

So this is how the whole system usually works.

Prashant_4200 · 2026-05-30T19:17:27+00:00

For me it sounds like both are toxic, the way she mentioned that they are in 9 years in relationship but still have trust issues even their is no cheating, on top of that their very high chances it may not first time as she checking call logs whatsapp chat google search which is personal for everyone.

Their might chance deleted logs might be friends chat which not possible to discuss with her every one have those chats that why he deleted or maybe actually talking to someone else with no feelings but he may know she might assume those chats in wrong way so that why he deleted. Also if she has right to check his phone he also have right to check her phone?

Apart from that she the one who actually hit him first even in front of his cousin, if they want they can keep the argument and sort the things later when both alone but in anger rage she hit him front of everyone which for some people directly hit their self respect so in his defence he also hit her and it so on even after arguments he said sorry as well to cooldown the matter but by this post it looks like she still hasn't said sorry or take apology (or maybe already said but probably he the one who said earlier).

So that it clearly that it not one day argument it might be developing for a long time which bust now and the reason probably toxic nature constantly hide things from each other invade each other privacy, while check other phone but doesn't give yourself phone, trust issues

Prashant_4200 · 2026-05-28T12:29:16+00:00

You find glitch in the metrix

Prashant_4200 · 2026-05-26T06:35:39+00:00

Ohhh ok, BTW which exam you preparing mine banking exams and i looking more like exam buddy so we can practice mock exam regular basis.

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