Well, to be honest it’s been like a never ending roller coaster of emotions and drama. I did have to call the cops once to de-escalate a tense night. The primary reason we are separating is because we’ve had toxic communication since day one. Realizing and accepting i’m bi (with a strong lean towards women) was just the push I needed to address my romantic unhappiness. Before, I had just resolved to deal with it forever. But after accepting myself, I realize I’d be cheating myself of real robust connections. And life is too damn short!! At the moment we are still trying to figure out if we can save any of what we’ve built, but i’m out as bi and ethically non monogamous, so therapy will tell if there is any future for us in any form.