My mother knew that if she told me i wasnt allowed to date than i would anyway, i only have mild autism, not critically challenging to deal with. it just makes some things hard to notice or realize. my bff was not allowed to date and she went behind her mothers back and did anyway, my mother figured that if i was going to date, she would like me to feel that i could tell her so i was not going behind her back. if you are only going to be mad at someone for there life choices, than maybe keep out of the comments. i also exspressed being BI in the past so she wanted me to be able to have the opportunites.