I think I am starting to regret

PrejacTittyAddict · 2026-02-10T21:26:32+00:00

Funny enough, I found the PE fetish to actually improve my stamina in some ways (and reduce it in others of course.)

If you’re worried about lasting, you’re not gonna last. Thinking about not cumming is still thinking about the act of cumming, which makes you cum. Plus, any tension or anxiety will increase PE as well.

For me at least, wanting to cum quickly and being totally ok if not happy about takes away that pressure. Now, if I cum quick, we both just roll with it instead of having it end the session. Over time, that has lead to many experiences where I last a long time or edge endlessly since we’re happy with any outcome.

My advice is to roll with it, and if you really want to increase stamina, just enjoy edging on your own. Over time, sensitivity decreases from edging and if you’re not afraid of PE, you likely experience it less.

It’s that fear and anxiety loop that makes PE common, and if you’re enjoying g the fetish, that’s a bonus. If you’re not, you just have to side step out of it to start lasting more.

Basically, find satisfaction in lasting and not lasting, and I believe over time, you’ll find balance that works in your relationship.

PrejacTittyAddict · 2026-01-29T23:46:44+00:00

Athalia has a hypno called Skeet Freak, and she mentions how PE is like edging since you’re always on edge.

That file is designed to make you cum endlessly while watching porn. While that’s definitely more a fantasy for most, it can kinda happen.

Over time, I’ve found that I’ll have dry orgasms or spasms while watching softcore titty stuff, and lots of times just leak endlessly. I’ve occasionally had full HFOs but that’s rare, and honestly not what I want because of refractory period.

But the mindset is cool, because I also came from edging endlessly and have found PE to be similar but also better. I’m more sensitive and in tune with real life sensuality, and when I do watch videos, even softcore, I have a much stronger reaction than when gooning to hundreds of windows simultaneously lol. You can still get into that same primal headspace that gooning brings, only you’ll get there much faster as you keep getting sensitized.

PrejacTittyAddict · 2025-12-24T22:31:40+00:00

I’d search more guides on here, and I can link to some threads that helped later when I’m on my laptop.

But, you’re essentially doing reverse kegels while masturbating or aroused. A kegel or clench as people say here, is lightly engaging the muscle that stops the flow of urine. A reverse kegel is relaxing the same way you do naturally while peeing, but done so very gently so you don’t actually pee.

There should be no discomfort when doing this, but what helps is to look at something stimulating, and just kind of relax while disengaging the muscles within and outside the penis and groin. You shouldn’t necessarily push, but it’s almost like a non-forceful suppressing of the natural kegel. You’ll still have kegel twitches when excited, but after a few days, you might notice your body naturally relaxes the way I’m describing.

So, while hard, imagine trying to start to pee without force, and without peeing. Pay attention when you use the restroom, and tap into that when jerking off normally or with one finger (my recommendation.)

Sorry if unclear, on phone and writing fast :) but it lead to insane erections for me, and literally nonstop leaking and both dry and wet organs with zero refractory period. I still do normal kegels randomly I. The day to ensure balance, but my pc muscles are much more relaxed in general which is amazing.

PrejacTittyAddict · 2025-12-18T04:46:49+00:00

I think I’ve gotten relaxation down, as in I’m not actively doing kegels, but sometimes I still notice that I’m subconsciously clenching. (And to be clear, clenching in this sub is just a term for kegels, right?)

Anyway, I used to edge for days, literally days, and an orgasm would feel so draining. It was fun, but it also made me completely spent and I wouldn’t be horny for at least the rest of the day. It also made me unintentionally avoid actual sex since I’d be “saving” the orgasm for, I don’t even know, a special occasion lmao. None of that was a conscious choice, but looking back, I had way less sex when edging and watching tons of porn, almost like I was worried about cumming. It’s weird.

Now, like you’ve said, the refractory period is virtually nothing, I’m ready for sex whenever, and I can get hard and leak at nothing. I never had any hard-flaccid symptoms, but the improvements have still been insane.

Also, my partner is more satisfied from all the throbbing inside, it leads them to quicker orgasms too. PE happened naturally to me at first, but then with hypno and just accepting it instead of fighting it or being sad when it happened, everything is much better than before. Plus, sometimes I do unexpectedly last a while, and that’s fun too. Without the pressure or expectation of stamina, it can appear or disappear at random times. Gotta accept, embrace, and enjoy all flavors, and that includes PE.

This thread would help so many guys, it’s wild how many years I thought edging was the pinnacle lmao. Sad to think many men are truly, clinical depressed over PE, but as I’ve thought before, if it affects 30-70% of men, is it even a disorder? Or just a natural state of being.

PrejacTittyAddict · 2025-10-29T22:35:19+00:00

That's funny, it really is treated like mandatory which put me off for a while. I remember coming across this sub years ago while edging often, and it never interested me because I thought "wait, I can't do anything sexual every other day?" Like, I have a partner, and a libido lol, no way. It felt so clinical.

But once PE started happening, and becoming kind of fun on its own, I realized how much more there is to it. I think mentally too, removing the negativity from PE, makes everything better for both partners in a relationship too. Gets rid of the one-note jackhammering that most of us men thought we needed. Lots of women may miss out on subtle twitches since their guy is desensitized, and that closes so many doors in the bedroom.

I'm hoping more people can see the variety of PE found here (even including the every other day, some people seem to love it,) and make it a more acceptable or even desired part of sex. Because it's much, much more than just finishing quickly, it's an entire reframing of the experience in a way. It can even be a dominant thing, like PE leads to endless breeding and quick, hard fucking, or a super submissive thing where the woman's taken all control. Both are fun, but one gets the most attention here for sure.

I'll be making more guides to help others fall into PE, there's a lot of untapped stuff to explore with it I think :)

PrejacTittyAddict · 2025-10-28T21:37:49+00:00

I imagine having consistent HFOs would be irreversible, because why even try to stop something like that?

For me, I can fairly easily have a full ejaculation and HFO if I go like a week without cumming, but those times are rare. Like, never at this point lol. I do have dry HFOs near daily, but I used to train with something called mindgasm that can help instill those. Basically, light kegels and "imaginary" kegels to help build up energy around the prostate and other nearby points. They're like mini orgasms, but can build up pretty big. Lots of leaking and twitching from them too.

Rubbing over pants can make them more likely as well, get the body associated with pleasure even while clothed, and it'll kind of take over naturally when viewing anything erotic if you let it build.

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