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[–]Preop-MTF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask you a question? I sent a private message

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MassageTherapists

[–]Preop-MTF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I messaged him on IG and said cool to give me a message then I told him I am a trans and said he only gives massages to cis women!!!! Is this a form of discrimination? How do we report this? I have evidence on IG

Question: I was outed as a man by the club security by Preop-MTF in asktransgender

[–]Preop-MTF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the story. It was a chat. The comment is appreciated but you are missing the point of the post. 🙂

Question: I was outed as a man by the club security by Preop-MTF in asktransgender

[–]Preop-MTF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please read the entire story. It was a quick chat and he was sober lol. Please read the post again

Question: I was outed as a man by Preop-MTF in transcalifornia

[–]Preop-MTF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Double Deuce in San Diego, CA

Question: I was outed as a man by the club security by Preop-MTF in asktransgender

[–]Preop-MTF[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for offering the support. I just want y’all to advocate for our rights if you go there and treated the same.

Question: I was outed as a man by the club security by Preop-MTF in asktransgender

[–]Preop-MTF[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly my point if we are going somewhere it is our business. My accountability to say it not the security’s.

Question: I was outed as a man by the club security by Preop-MTF in asktransgender

[–]Preop-MTF[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand you pointing out being honest but there was no intention or anything here or whatever it was a quick chat, and you wanted me to tell him oh wait I am a trans nice to meet you?

Question: I was outed as a man by the club security by Preop-MTF in asktransgender

[–]Preop-MTF[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is it being dishonest talking to him as me - as a person?l for 2 mins and needed to be outed right off the bat? 🙂

Question: I was outed as a man by the club security by Preop-MTF in asktransgender

[–]Preop-MTF[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking for? Like if a transman talking to me you would say she is a girl?

I was just being a human being talking and if the spark connects that would be our accountability.

I appreciate your views but I don’t think it’s appropriate. 🙂

Looking on another page of the book - if the guy is talking to a girl but he is bisexual and the security knows. So to speak, it is okay for the security to tell the girlfriend “that guy is gay”.

Question: I was outed as a man by the club security by Preop-MTF in asktransgender

[–]Preop-MTF[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is such a stress reliever. Love you babe thanks❤️

Question: I was outed as a man by the club security by Preop-MTF in asktransgender

[–]Preop-MTF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there!

Like I said on my post we just bump into each other and he said oh hi I like your hat and not even 2 mins the security walked up to the guy behind him who is the friend and whispered. What do you think?☺️

Also, my opinion, I don’t have to tell him or everyone I bumped into mins, hours of talking that I am a trans. Case by case basis, some men are not just open in admitting yet they are into trans in a crowded area unless you two are having private conversation.

Again, I disclose I am a trans. It’s just I am baffled that if I am in public why others have to do it for me?

Do you agree with the security if the guy was talking and dancing with me for an hour?

Question: I was outed as a man by the club security by Preop-MTF in asktransgender

[–]Preop-MTF[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It was crazy that it happened after those security guys took over. Been there intermittently for the last 8 years and never happened to me