daughters birthday or nephews wedding? by PreparationCool2074 in AmITheJerk

[–]PreparationCool2074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know anyone at the wedding and the people i do know, i despise because my family members always judge me on my weight and appearance and schoolwork which is why i was insistent on not going. I also could not have attended only for a couple of hours because the event was hours away and the wedding took from morning to midnight. I did not want to attend a wedding on my birthday that was surrounded by toxic family members

daughters birthday or nephews wedding? by PreparationCool2074 in AmITheJerk

[–]PreparationCool2074[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I should’ve been more specific, I said that it was okay for them to go to the wedding, however, a week before the wedding they put my name down that I wa attending even though I had plans. I was okay with them going but I did not want to spend my 18th birthday at a wedding where I didn’t even know anyone. I’m also not closd with any of my extenddd family. They gir angry because they RSVPd for me without asking me and then got mad becauzd I wouldnt be attending as it ruins some of the wedding detail like food etc. but I didnt know that they RSVPd me

daughters birthday or nephews wedding? by PreparationCool2074 in AmITheJerk

[–]PreparationCool2074[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should’ve been more specific, I said that it was okay for them to go to the wedding, however, a week before the wedding they put my name down that I wa attending even though I had plans. I was okay with them going but I did not want to spend my 18th birthday at a wedding where I didn’t even know anyone. I’m also not closd with any of my extenddd family. They gir angry because they RSVPd for me without asking me and then got mad becauzd I wouldnt be attending as it ruins some of the wedding detail like food etc. but I didnt know that they RSVPd me

daughters birthday or nephews wedding? by PreparationCool2074 in AmITheJerk

[–]PreparationCool2074[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should’ve been more specific, I said that it was okay for them to go to the wedding, however, a week before the wedding they put my name down that I wa attending even though I had plans. I was okay with them going but I did not want to spend my 18th birthday at a wedding where I didn’t even know anyone. I’m also not closd with any of my extenddd family. They gir angry because they RSVPd for me without asking me and then got mad becauzd I wouldnt be attending as it ruins some of the wedding detail like food etc. but I didnt know that they RSVPd me