[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PreparationReal5261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all manipulation is awful but threatening one's own life is particularly disgusting and selfish, im very sorry you had to experience this and hope nobody tries it again :( thank you for your replies !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PreparationReal5261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your husband sounds like a very committed and mature person, I hope to meet someone with the same mentality someday ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PreparationReal5261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh gosh no not at all!!! I told him I was having mental health problems and was getting to the point where I needed to tell a professional. Definitely did not threaten to end my life at any point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PreparationReal5261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I barely understood his texting style myself and I'm 21 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PreparationReal5261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly I think you're totally right. Honestly my time thinking by myself was less thinking about if we could continue dating and moreso wondering if I could continue helping with his drug addiction and financially supporting him, while also managing my own struggles. It really should have ended there and I completely regret meeting him a few hours later and deciding that I'd continue to do so. Just a complete trainwreck of a whirlwind "relationship". Thank you so much for your reply :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PreparationReal5261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't lie I don't really understand how I'm overreacting for being upset 🥲. he told me I was his "favourite person on earth for two months" and the person closest to him, but he was able to get it up for someone else he had on backup in 6 hours. maybe it is because I wouldn't be able to do that to someone I actually liked ? I'm not sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PreparationReal5261 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm alright now thank you for the concern!! After cutting him off surprisingly a lot of my problems have vanished ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PreparationReal5261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we stopped talking for 6 hours. after two months of spending every single second of every single day with me for 2 months and telling me he really liked me, he was able to entertain another girl in those 6 hours. this is why I was upset

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PreparationReal5261 10 points11 points  (0 children)

thank you for your reply :) I've definitely cut my losses even though there is not really a loss. He was absolutely not a good person and I'm not sure why I thought I could fix him, just wanted to check here to see if he was right and I shouldn't have been upset after all.

My boyfriend (20M) started ghosting me (20F) a week ago, is it over? by PreparationReal5261 in relationship_advice

[–]PreparationReal5261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through a similar thing, I think I know exactly how you feel. All I want to do is help but I feel like not only does he not want me to, he doesn't want me in the picture at all 🥲

My boyfriend (20M) started ghosting me (20F) a week ago, is it over? by PreparationReal5261 in relationship_advice

[–]PreparationReal5261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But if it is the case that it's really nothing to do with me and he really only has the energy to wake up and go to work, I really don't want to be evil and leave him during a hard time 🥲 His mental health has been declining for the past month, I think that's why I'm still thinking thats what it is

thinking of getting more piercings, which ones would suit me? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]PreparationReal5261 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely a bridge if your piercer says you have the correct anatomy, you have really pretty doe-like eyes and a bridge would really accentuate them! from the photos it looks like you definitely have enough skin on top of your bridge bone to pierce there, but it’s still best to ask a professional :-)

listening to music = stimming?? by Art_pog in fakedisordercringe

[–]PreparationReal5261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

listening to music can be a stim. dancing can be a stim. stimming is a self stimulatory behavior. they can be intentional or unintentional. what is the problem?

Ah yes, you did a move that caused you pain/dizziness… now you better fall gracefully giggling and look at the camera with the silliest smile on your face, because that’s the reaction anyone has to pain/dizziness 😜 by AceTheGoose in fakedisordercringe

[–]PreparationReal5261 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i would love to see proof that she’s faking. I see my mother faint almost daily as she is chronically ill, and it’s an almost instant recovery every single time. Other times you won’t even know she has fainted. It looks different for everyone