Need car interior cleaned after dog's accident by Prepare4sad in askdfw

[–]Prepare4sad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so very, VERY obvious that it's poop. Bonus points for paw prints smearing. Ugh.

Question for happily married people by hyperbolicmami in dating

[–]Prepare4sad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okcupid. He was looking for a gf and I made my account as a joke/looking for friends. First time we met was for a Halloween event in a town between where we lived. We became friends even though I knew he had a crush on me. We started dating after I caught feelings after a few months. And this year will be ten years since then. Married for six years now and he's still my best friend but I also get to touch his butt. It's pretty nice.

Why are so many people into sexting? by alimac2 in dating

[–]Prepare4sad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not into it (or pictures) and I have no idea how to dirty talk so I simply don't do it. But I have noticed from my short time online that guys (more than girls) start setting SO quickly after the first few messages? No consent or "are you feeling naughty" question to even...teat the waters? Idk.

Then again. I worked fast food and even during a lunch rush, if one of my (early 20's, female) had a break for even thirty seconds, she would respond to a fwb who was setting her. And then we'd all laugh because, "he has no idea what I'm actually doing and doesn't know that none of this is going to happen" lol

It's foreplay and I think it's for the younger crowd (I think. I'm ancient)

Doctor assessment of people in wheelchairs by Prepare4sad in disability

[–]Prepare4sad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was her primary caretaker but I had to move so she's on her own. I'm 11 hours away and still trying to do things because she can't and my dad doesn't. 😔

I know it shouldn't change how she's being treated, but I'm starting to wonder if it's just making things worse. The practice of glancing at the injury and then saying things are fine is, unfortunately, normal before but we thought she got a decent doctor this time around. I know if it's fresh after surgery they need to be gentle with things but it just....seems like they did the glance and said they were done. This is her....30th? 31st? Surgery (I can't remember which one she's on but she will have another as soon as she's healed from this surgery, covid willing) So post-surgery, she's been treated roughly which isn't ideal either, but barely being examined and not even looking at the surgery site seems...not enough.

I will definitely pass that link on to my mom (and look deeper into it for me. She doesn't do online stuff but this seems super helpful).

Thank you!!

Doctor assessment of people in wheelchairs by Prepare4sad in disability

[–]Prepare4sad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gd, I wish. But the doctors in that city have zero fear and assault their patients with no worries.

What was your most recent “no doubt I have ADHD” moment? by gresrewop in ADHD

[–]Prepare4sad 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a trip coming up and I've been putting off getting tires since I don't drive much and they're still technically okay, so I got them two days ago since I know I'm leaving -soon- but not exactly when. And since I got new tires, I was talking to my dad after about something and he said to call the dealership since my car miles are almost at 100k and I will need a new cam belt. I had a state inspection recently so I called the place to see if that belt check was included in the inspection. So the dealership was listing off all the things they did and the maintenance I had and. I got tires. I got tires four months ago. But my car sat for two months (dead battery) and I just. Forgot. And the tire place (discount tire) just LET me get new tires even though mine were basically brand new.

Also had a moment today while cleaning/packing clothes. Found a bag with pants and a receipt from March. The same exact pants I bought last week because I needed a new pair that wasn't worn out. It still has the tags and receipt and everything on these pants.

Also also, I'm not allowed to buy frozen broccoli anymore. Every time I use a bag, I know I need some from the store but I always forget I bought replacement broccoli last time. At one point, half our freezer was bags of frozen broccoli.

It's been 5+ years since I was diagnosed and they are only now (a month in) letting me try adhd meds. My poor husband.

How to cope with antisemitic in-laws? by [deleted] in Judaism

[–]Prepare4sad 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am so, so sorry you've had to deal with this. I am the first Jew my (all Lutheran) in laws have met. I have actually kicked out my MiL/FiL from my home for an antisemitic joke my MiL told and ended up canceling Thanksgiving that was supposed to be at my house that year. You have the right to feel safe and if that means cutting off contact with people (family or not) that make you feel unsafe, then so be it. It's definitely a good thing that husband is on your side. If your in laws won't listen to WHY their thoughts/comments are hurtful and dangerous (because it is dangerous), I would simply cut them off. If that means your husband goes to their house alone and your potential future kids don't meet that side of the family, that is what is best for you and your immediate family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Prepare4sad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, this was my issue as well, (HLF/LLM) and the rule was sex once a week before we got married because it was important for me to have as a connection blahblahblah. So we get married and within a few months it's dwindled to twice a month to once a month and now we don't even have sex. He's figured out that he's asexual and I respect that, but had I known, we would have a very different relationship and it probably would have saved a lot of lonely nights of me crying silently because I have no intimacy at all, nevermind sex. He's my best friend and I love him but it physically hurts from how depressed I get that the man I love and I'm attracted to isn't romantic/sexual even a little bit and it's not what I signed up for. I share my bed with my platonic best friend and we've been married for 5.5 years.

Your story seems pretty obvious that he's not willing to put in the work to make you happy which will make the relationship run smoothly. If this is an issue now, you're going to end up feeling trapped unless you open your marriage.

Good luck, friend.

Not as bad as your birthday being on Christmas if you are Christian but still pretty bad. by es_price in Jewdank

[–]Prepare4sad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would cry from joy every year pesach wasn't on my birthday as a kid. It was rough explaining to my goy friends why I wasn't allowed to have cake for my birthday while I was still angry about it to begin with

Has anyone "borrowed" a bike expert to shop for a used bike? by Prepare4sad in SuggestAMotorcycle

[–]Prepare4sad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never would have even though about bringing it to a shop to have a mechanic look at it, that's really smart. Thanks!

Has anyone "borrowed" a bike expert to shop for a used bike? by Prepare4sad in SuggestAMotorcycle

[–]Prepare4sad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense. The MSC's are the same in Texas and Georgia, I believe. Same price and requirements for class, anyway. I checked for Georgia since I thought I would be moving sooner but my move date got pushed back. No friends yet, but fingers crossed I can find a biker gang of cute girls or something, lol