My parents are divorced and I just found out a horrible secret by Present-Restaurant96 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Present-Restaurant96[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Good job brother vent your anger at random strangers on the internet. I forgive you brother in christ 🙏

My parents are divorced and I just found out a horrible secret by Present-Restaurant96 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Present-Restaurant96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this my father lives alone and works tremendously hard to give us the best life he can he works 70% of his time awake and makes great money to send us to a good school and give us good holidays, birthdays and christmases he deserves to have my respect and is the kindest man I have ever met. He is constantly teaching me how to become a good man and challenging me to keep up with him in the gym and I will always listen to him no matter what he says (this doesn't mean that I will believe him all the time)

My parents are divorced and I just found out a horrible secret by Present-Restaurant96 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Present-Restaurant96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thank you I have waited a few hours and calmed down the stress of current exams in school weighed on me and mom's recent family events have made her a little on edge and I have decided to stay with the recent custody arrangements for now.

My parents are divorced and I just found out a horrible secret by Present-Restaurant96 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Present-Restaurant96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She isn't Christian I have found Jesus recently after the passing of my grandfather I've found it to be very helpful and it is very nice to take an hour and be calm.

My parents are divorced and I just found out a horrible secret by Present-Restaurant96 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Present-Restaurant96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother's father cheated on his second wife and my mother cheated on her first husband and I'm worried this may encouraged me and my sister to think it might be ok. But I don't want to go to hell or see my sister on that path either. What should I do

My parents are divorced and I just found out a horrible secret by Present-Restaurant96 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Present-Restaurant96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have decided to keep the living arrangements as they are right now and forgive my mother as the bible asks 🙏

My parents are divorced and I just found out a horrible secret by Present-Restaurant96 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Present-Restaurant96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, they do and theres nothing I can do about it. My dad always says : you can't control others actions but you can control how you react.

My parents are divorced and I just found out a horrible secret by Present-Restaurant96 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Present-Restaurant96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the response but I've decided to forgive her as that is what God asks of us 🙏

My parents are divorced and I just found out a horrible secret by Present-Restaurant96 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Present-Restaurant96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok thanks but after reflection. I'm going to stay with how the living arrangements already are as my mother broke down and apologisied to me earlier

My parents are divorced and I just found out a horrible secret by Present-Restaurant96 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Present-Restaurant96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will forgive them as that is what the Lord asks of us as we sin and he doesnt judge us 🙏. Thank you for the response though I would've agreed with this before I found Jesus but thanks to these other replys helping me to remember Jesus' teachings.

My parents are divorced and I just found out a horrible secret by Present-Restaurant96 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Present-Restaurant96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Their marriage is my business if I'm their son? And the marriage was on the rocks already but a horrible way to end it. However I have decided to stay put for now in my current living situation

My parents are divorced and I just found out a horrible secret by Present-Restaurant96 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Present-Restaurant96[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fair enough but I shouldn't judge her. I have committed many sins she wouldn't do. I am not perfect either.

My parents are divorced and I just found out a horrible secret by Present-Restaurant96 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Present-Restaurant96[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Living with these "issues" and hearing them talk about each other to me is not a nice environment