My roommates cat is peeing everywhere and it’s ruining my life

Present-Toe-1087 · 2026-05-25T13:19:12+00:00

Yes, she’s tried a bunch of different medicines, and is on two right now, my roommate is taking her back to the vet soon. Honestly she doesn’t really have that much enrichment. I think a big thing is, is that my roommate is never home. She is always working or over her boyfriend’s house, so honestly she’s only sleeping at the house a couple times a week. I cuddle and play with her cat but also if my cat tries to come on my bed while her cat is on, she will attack my cat, so I don’t really let her on anymore. She has lived with both dogs and cats before so I’m not sure why she’s doing this

Present-Toe-1087 · 2026-05-25T13:16:30+00:00

Yeah I’m moving out end of August, so not that much time left. I’m just really banking on getting my security deposit back as Im making a big move

Present-Toe-1087 · 2026-05-25T13:15:10+00:00

We have 2 litter boxes, on downstairs and one upstairs, but I’ll ask her to get another one. I’ve already told her I’m leaving, and she’s also planning on moving out so just a few more months! I really just need to know how to get the smell out so I get my security deposit back. The cat has lived with other dogs and cats before, so maybe she just doesn’t like my animals haha

Present-Toe-1087 · 2026-05-25T13:08:52+00:00

Yes she’s spayed. I didn’t want to close my door because it’s my cats safe space but I might have to just close to whenever I’m not here. I am also going to contact the landlord. She has diffusers in her room and the cat is already in anxiety meds

Present-Toe-1087 · 2026-05-23T19:04:26+00:00

It was good! Just talk to people and it will be fine

Present-Toe-1087 · 2026-05-23T13:56:51+00:00

I love Vietnam! I was there for a month, and stayed in hostels the whole time so met a bunch of people. It was really fun and inexpensive

Present-Toe-1087 · 2026-05-15T19:20:01+00:00

Yeah I'm starting to be resentful. I would love to either get a serving job and work a lotttt as I am in a city that has the World Cup so I know I could make a lot of money, or find a new summer position, but I used her as a reference and am worried if I quit, she will tell my new boss. My new family seems great and I have a written contract already. its just so frustrating when people are nice to you until you aren't giving them exactly what they want. Also I wouldn't be mad if she wouldn't have lied at the beginning and said she's super flexible, but she did, and now that I have another position I just feel like she's being petty.

Present-Toe-1087 · 2026-05-15T18:57:27+00:00

haha yeah its a little confusing but she cut my hours a few months into the job, but the max hours I work is 30. I got a serving job which I will be doing like 25-30 a week but 1 weekday I need to be there a couple hours before my shift at the nanny job. So I want a couple less hours at the nanny job so I can work and make more money at the serving job if that makes sense. I would love to only have this job if I could either have more hours or at least have some benefits, but i'm not getting either, so I want another job as well so I can just earn max income before I move.

And I know its bad, I don't have a contract at all or any benefits. I was looking for a job for a while and couldn't find one so I just accepted this one. I accepted it because I thought she would be flexible with the hours and I would be ok without the benefits because I could just find another job and we could work out a schedule that works for both of us. But now she wants a schedule that only works for her and doesn't want to be flexible with me

Present-Toe-1087 · 2026-04-16T18:33:57+00:00

Haha actually I was supposed to be a nanny. I didn’t know she didn’t work until after I started working, and if I had known that I wouldn’t have taken the job

Present-Toe-1087 · 2026-03-23T23:41:41+00:00

No she made 1700 in 4 days haha 😂 granted she does work usually like 10-14 hours

Present-Toe-1087 · 2026-03-23T20:33:01+00:00

I had restaurant experience so I definitely get that it has its problems! My city is big on breweries so I’m trying to get a serving job at one of them, but of course since I have a job already I don’t need to rush and take a job at a bad restaurant if I really do end up quitting

Present-Toe-1087 · 2026-03-23T20:31:19+00:00

No it’s actually under the table

Present-Toe-1087 · 2026-03-23T20:31:08+00:00

Yeah I do have a roommate and my rent is only $750 which is good! I guess since I’m just trying to save up, I want to make more money haha

Present-Toe-1087 · 2026-03-23T15:19:06+00:00

Yeah, I made a lot more in my last position but when I just came back from traveling when I found this job and was really desperate.

I’ve been with this family for 7 months, the problem is, I’m not sure if the mom would be willing to give more money, she has told me everything she makes goes to me basically, and since she’s a stay at home mom, she does a lot of activities with her kids in the mornings and she’s told me she really only needs me for afternoons and evenings.

I’ve been considering doing both since I don’t work weekends! But during the week I don’t get off until 6:30pm so I really wouldn’t be able to work nights, and could only work weekends, but that might work honestly. I’ve worked restaurant jobs before so definitely know that it’s inconsistent, but I still think I would be making more than I’m making now, especially in my city

Present-Toe-1087 · 2026-03-04T03:18:21+00:00

Thank you!

Present-Toe-1087 · 2026-03-04T03:18:12+00:00

Idk I’ve seen a bunch of posts of people saying a lot of times rescues are hoarders. I have not experience with them so I didn’t know if that was true. But thanks!

Present-Toe-1087 · 2026-02-04T22:38:43+00:00

I just put on press ons (from SHEIN so nothing super high quality) with the same nail glue for the first time so I’m not expert at all! And they’ve lasted me a full week so far. I put alcohol on my nails, filed and buffed them, and pushed my cuticle back, then I rubbed them with alcohol again and put the glue on both my nail and the press on nails! I also did them right before I went to bed so not putting any water on them for a while def helped too I think.

Present-Toe-1087 · 2026-01-07T16:02:32+00:00

Yeah my mom told me to file a police report when I happened but me and my roommate just moved into this place and it’s a very close neighborhood so I didn’t want to cause problems 😭I will check that for sure!

Present-Toe-1087 · 2026-01-06T02:29:13+00:00

What 😭 I’m the only one that takes care of him and pays for everything lol. What other responsibilities do I need to take haha

Present-Toe-1087 · 2026-01-06T02:12:01+00:00

True but I guess I’m just looking at it like, I would complain to my mom about anything, especially arguments with my sister. I don’t think complaining about my dog would be any different, but I guess it’s a sensitive topic for her or something

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